>get qt bf
>we're both verse
>we take turns being bottom
>I'm bottom more often or not
>when I top he says it hurts
>when just the tip goes in its too much
>I'm not that big
>we use plenty of lube
His butt was torn by a really big guy before we were dating. What can we do?
>>8828256
You can't just lather up with tons of lube and expect that to work you fucking idiot.
If he's too tight, you have to work the lube in and around. You push a little in, pull out. Push a little more in, Pull out. Completely each time.
Otherwise, there are points of contact that will be unlubricated and even though it feels good to you, he can still feel those areas being rugburned by your cock.
>>8828256
i have a dominant man for a bf
his 8 incher got in eventually
sore the first time and nearly cried, but now it just feels deep and overwhelming in pleasure
im glad i did
Have you tried poppers? I was fucking this kid once and he couldn't really take me because he was only 14 so I got him some poppers. You just take a hit and then the top can push right in. Worked like a charm. The high also makes the fucking feel great. Only problem is, the poppers are a little smelly.
>>8828574
Why dont u have a seat right over there...
>>8828574
He mentioned poppers but I never fully understood what it is
>>8828266
Damn, chill out. I never hurt him and stopped when he said he couldn't go any more
>>8829197
Poppers are nitrates. They cause vasodillation which leads to increased blood flow to the penis and you can see where this is going.
>>8829204
Sounds like a good time. Maybe I should try it with him as well
>>8828555
does having a 'dominant' boyfriend with a 8 inch cock make you feel like more of a man? it makes you sound like a pussy
and im a guy with a 8.5 incher, thats why i stick with cis girls cause fags are just failed men trying to compensate for themselves, they have all sorts of problems
plus girls bodies and pussies are unbeatable
>>8829214
Pussy is gross man
>had dietary intolerance to a a food item appearing frequently in my diet
>it made my shits hard as a rock
>developed anal fissures and bled slightly every time I took a dump
>this went on for several years before I figured out how to fix it
>later, am gay, want to start playing with butt
>hitting the prostate feels good, but inserting toys causes too much discomfort even when loosening carefully and using plenty of lube
Have a bump, OP. I'm wondering the same damn thing.
>>8829214
Disgusting breeder be gone.
>>8828574
What are poppers and how do they make things easier for a bottom
>>8828574
Well, congrats, you're a sick fuck.
Is giving rim jobs a top or bottom behavior?
Im a strict bottom. I love the degradation of sticking my face in a mans ass and licking his asshole clean with the same mouth I use to kiss my mother, but absolutely cannot stand getting them.
On one hand, its a degrading act. On the other, its sort of like eating pussy.
Confusing.
>>8832881
it's a disgusting behavior is what it is
It all depends on context though.
>>8829214
>goes on a gay board to rant about gays, without having anybody asking
>explains to another guys how his post made him sound
ok, faggot we get it. you are super straight, you can tell your momma that you convinced another randy, cause i for one totally believe you. I mean if i ever read a post of an alpha pussy smasher, then it was here on /lgbt/
>>8832937
>it's a disgusting behavior is what it is
Thank you, sir.
>>8832881
I see giving rim jobs as a dom thing, usually as a generous precursor before he nails you in the butt
>>8832881
Same as sucking dick, it completely depends on the context and can be either
>>8829665
How long has it been since you fixed it? Not Op, but I might have just recently fixed my issue and this sounds a little disheartening that it could be a long lasting problem even after the cause is addressed.
>>8833457
See, thats the thing. To me, sex isnt about the man being 'generous'. Im the one whos supposed to be pleasing, not him. If my dick fell off, it wouldn't affect my sex life a bit. Might even improve it lel
>>8833498
That sounds like some versatile propganda, the whole "I suck dick but Im equally a man a should be viewed as one..
Thats a long, deep, twisted rabbit hole of a discussion and Im not up for being dogpiled itt for saying haram things on this board today. Equality and sex go together like racing and speed bumps, imo.
>>8833542
It's been 5 months now, but a few weeks ago I accidentally ate some because I didn't check ingredients and that was somehow enough to almost take it back to square one.
I've already been applying vaseline and coconut oil to try and help with healing, but they don't seem to have been doing the trick. Someone in the archive recommended chilled aloe vera gel, so I might try that next.
>>8832881
Op here
I love eating that ass, Idk why tho
For me ass eating is more of domination thing, I never tried it and I don't want to.
>>8828256
Have you try the massaging with lube+fingers?
Btw, He might be lying about pain. You should be The Bottom more often :3
>>8835481
I'm 75% certain he's lying. He hasn't topped anyone before and I think he's addicted. I really don't mind ;p
>>8835403
Do it while showering
Everything is clean in the shower ;)