Convince me that "trutrans" and "legitimacy"

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Convince me that "trutrans" and "legitimacy" are really differences of quality and not degree
and that being actually trans is something that makes you act 100% the same as everyone else who is
and that it's not all just a way to make transpeople not "look bad" by having one acceptable story about being trans and making everyone stick to it or they will be ostracized
Even though there's no proof that early onset dysphoria is a different condition altogether from late onset