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I'm in the BDSM community. I'm a male bi-sexual, "dom" leaning "switch." I've met A LOT of male bottoms who enjoy being called a faggot (not for everyone) while they're fucked. A lot of them enjoy little pain while they're fucked. A lot of them enjoy the degradation and humiliation of debasing themselves and being used. These are major keys to sexual arousal and satisfaction for many. They like to feel inferior.
Pleasure from feeling dehumanized and inferior is pleasure out of low self esteem and self image. This is unhealthy. This lowers the self esteem, self image and confidence of the people doing it. It is self destructive psychologically and physically.
A lot of homosexuality, especially male on male homosexuality is unhealthy in this manner.
It is objectively wrong to do such a thing, as you provide an example for naive others to follow and hurt themselves; you hurt others.
This seems irrefutable to me. So, why is it okay for women to act and treat themselves in this exact same manner as heterosexual females? Not all of them do, but many do. It is not viewed nearly as negatively as being a male bottom, though.
Why is this? Why are men not allowed the same pleasure without more judgement (a lot of women, I've noticed frown upon submissive and masochistic males).
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>>8790806
I've been in the BDSM commuity for years and just piping in to say everything you wrote is wrong and stupid thanks. Especially this part
>This lowers the self esteem, self image and confidence of the people doing it. It is self destructive psychologically and physically.
If your sub experiences this you are a shitty dom. It has nothing to do with them, only you.
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>>8790822
It's an almost subliminal effect.
You're going to tell me a person who likes to be called a cocksucker and be used for pleasure by numerous men and gaped isn't experiencing any negative psychological effects?
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>>8790843
>muh subliminulel reprogramming
Just fuck off.
t. another person in the BDSM community
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>>8790843
as I said theyll only experience that IF YOU'RE A SHITTY DOM. Subs dont actually believe that unless you lead them to believe it.
I've called my sub a dog cum guzzling slut and Im pretty sure, even subconsciously, she doesnt think she guzzles dog cum.
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>>8790902
Nobody believes shit, you people place way too much emphasis on your social connections and pretend the willing leading the willing means anything at all. Temperance crowd attempting to brand the scurry community like they did with D&D in the 90s. Then it was satanists, now it's rapists.
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One of the only things that makes me happy is being a bottom pup for a dom top that punishes me (hits me, calls me names, etc), talks dirty to me, trains me, and "rewards" me with cum deep in my or a good assfuck for being a "good boy".
Too bad most doms fucking suck. They're either gross old guys, too nice during play, or they're not white. And the good ones are like finding gold.
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>>8791845
Deep in my THROAT.
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>>8790822
fpbp
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