>hormones have completely 100% killed my ability to orgasm

>>8757256
detransition and take T shots

>>8757256
you have fucked up ur body with hormones, enjoy the ride

>>8757266
I'm not going to detransition

stop taking antiandrogens

>>8757256
Have you tried a vibrator yet?

I have major genital dysphoria (so not an issue caused by hormones) so I keep the unwanted appendage soft the whole time and just use a wand vibrator, much more intense than the old orgasms. Also, it may sound stupid but have you tried switching things up with breast play? Like just switching up how you handle them (amount of pressure, different grips) I know it sounds weird but it got insanely better for me when I found out what I liked. I don't orgasm from breast play alone but honestly it feels great so who cares.

If all else fails, check with your endo if you have one. Your T may be way too low and might need to slightly reduce your antiandrogen.

>>8757366
I haven't tried a vibrator yet, I guess I'll order one

I basically am constantly switching up what I do with my breasts but I feel like my hands aren't enough

>>8757256
hrt increased your sex drive?
I thought it would decrease it. I really don't want any more sex drive.
Having a low sex drive is something I was looking forward to...

>>8757385
My sex drive basically didn't exist before I started HRT, I don't know why it's this way for me

>>8757385
In my experience your sex drive goes up at the beginning of HRT because there are extra hormones in your system but as your body adjusts and reduces the amount of testosterone produced, your sex drive goes down.

>>8757389
>>8757415
what if your sex drive revolves around your self-worth and a constant search for validation?

>>8757256
Let someone fuck you and play with your nips

>>8757461
>your sex drive revolves around your self-worth

you mean you only have sex because it validates you?
maybe talk to a therapist about it?

>>8757415
I've been on hormones for a long time and it has just steadily increased for me the entire time

>>8757486
I don't want to have casual sex with strangers anon

>>8757461
>>8757385
wihtot any hrt just being depressed and dysphoric made me almost asexual I could fap but it gave me almost no pleasure and nothing turned me on it felt so forced

>>8757256
>while paradoxically increasing my sex drive
T - S U R G E

>>8757493
its a factor, but regardless I still don't like my sex drive. I tend to feel gross after sex.

>>8757256
Being on anti depressants I have a kind of similar problem. Im one of the lucky 1% who the side effects cause delayed or in my case None ejaculation :( sadly I can't get off the medication as I need it diagnosed with a bunch of shit and its actually helping me. Dr tried some medication to help the prostate but it did shit spent 5 hours jerking it one time and 3 hours jerking it followed by sexual relations with my girl for how ever long.. I found do to a close friend of mine that prostate milking combined with ether sex or masterbation works rather well.. Still not the 20 mis I use to be able to do but alot less then the 3 hours I was having.. With the anal stimulation I can get off with in 1 hour :) thankfully as it was driving me mad! I was leaking cum like there was no tomorrow because my body had to remove the excess.. I recommend you get your self 3 toys two anal toys that are meant for beginners I found for me this was a 8 inch curved suction sup dildo lifelike and a 7 inch vibrator. I also bought a flesh light but the the brand name one of those knock off ones and when combining the anal play with the toy it will make just about anyone cum. My friend is transgender she uses this method for her self as well do to hormones and she's happier as she can give pleasure to her man and not even have to touch her cock to get off witch she informed me will happen to me over time if I continue as long as she did.. Anyways hope this helps you out and I hope you get off soon sucks not being able to let go.. Happy Jacking hun

>>8757256
I like to rub that little nub just at the base of my dick. If i press firmly and rub I find myself moaning.

>>8757617
honestly you can love their vag all you want but 1) puss isn't the be all end all, 2) recognize that different people feel differently of their bodies and 3) you can recognize your vag as a hair covered fleshy parasite incubator without thinking that makes it a bad thing. and stop assuming that people who think differently of you are suddently satan on ice

>>8757617
You understand that there are females with high sex drive right?

Get extremely turned on, vibe in gt through your pantsu, concentrate on nipples
you'll cum hard

Get a nice dildo and use it.

>>8758260
And those have higher rates of T than other women, your point?

>>8757256
So can you just not get hard, or is there no real stimulation in your dick at all? You could try taking a viagra or something.

>>8757529
Sex disgusted me prior to transitioning, now that I actually have some self worth, my sex drive has jolted upwards. I masturbate a lot less, but actual desire increases. Puberty is tough, even the second time