I'm a gay bottom who's going to lose his virginity tomorrow. I'm not very good at taking it up the butt and I'm really nervous. What should I do?
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>>8707727
>knowing when you're going to lose your virginity.
LOL, are you hooking with some faggot off grindr or something?
>>8707727
you should find a partner whos willing to go your pace is what you should do instead potentially of rushing into things
>>8707729
I'm not OP but me (cishet male) and my first GF were both virgins we dated and we set a date for when we knew my parents were gone for the day so we could ease in and take our time. We were dating for 6 months before we attempted sexytime.
>>8707727
>Clean yourself up
>Use lots of lube
>Take it slow until you get a good rhythm going
>Communicate
>If it hurts too much going in, you can try riding him a bit so that you can ease his cock in and have more control
Most importantly, post results afterwards.
>>8707727
>I'm a gay bottom who's going to lose his virginity
Then you're not a fucking bottom you retard, you're just a dumb virgin who's going to try bottoming for the first time. Stop trying to label yourself as a sex position when you don't even know if you actually like it yet.
Jesus Christ, I fucking hate millennials.
>>8707727
Stop before it's too late, anal sex is among the most degenerate things ever.
>>8708086
When people like you call everything you don't like "degenerate" then the word loses its significance.
You might as well be saying "muh patriarchy" or "das racist". No one cares anymore.
>>8707899
>I fucking hate milennial
>is a milennial
what did he mean by this?
>>8708086
>>8708235
I'm gen x
>>8707761
NOOOOOOO!
>>8708086
Well what else would they do? Penis swordfighting?
>>8708446
Well yes of course, but only as long as they love each other, obviously, which probably ain't gonna happen since OP didn't mention any bf. It's like you degnerates don't even want to even try to respect yourselves.
>>8707761
>Cishet male
Your kind isnt welcome here. Please leave.
>>8707899
>Getting this mad over something so trivial
Why
>>8708086
>Muh degeneracy
>>8708504
Wait he might agp
U gotta go raw like u gottA GO 100% OR NOTHING U WEAK VERGIN
>>8707899
Not OP but what if I'm too submissive and the thought of fucking someone or even using my dick at all doesn't sound good. I only want to date someone who only tops too.
>>8708734
Pure bottoms are the most glorious species of men.
>>8707878
I just shaved pretty much everywhere but is there any way to practice without a dildo?
>>8708504
Nope.
>>8709126
human*
>>8711951
finger?
dick shaped objects + condom?
banana?
>>8708443
>destroying your body
what are you a bible thumping christian from the southern us? why do u give a shit about what other people do with their anus.
>>8712273
Darn
Seriously why the fuck are you here senpai
>>8712400
Why do people like you always answer the same kind of ridiculous, mindless, pathetic bs when confronted about their degeneracy ? You're responsible for a lot of deaths and will one day be treated accordingly.
>>8708504
Im a cis male. I think a lot of people here are cis males.
>>8712361
The ones that care about how they look are. The ones that don't can be kind of gross.
>>8712622
What is that image from i want moar.
>>8714342
According to saucenao:
https://saucenao.com/search.php?url=https://i.4cdn.org/lgbt/1502542393728.jpg
>>8714043
Yes but are they cishet males tho?
>>8714455
Nvm that's not the artist
Have Pizza and KFC for dinner.
Don't shower or shave tomorrow or you'll risk damaging helpful bacteria. Condoms aren't necessary as long as his dick doesn't have any lumps or sores on it.
Have fun!
>>8712622
lgbt problems fascinate me.
Waitin on that update, OP.
>>8716693
Which letter is the most interesting?
>>8717552
Okay, I just got home from his place.
>met up with him at the mall he works at after his shift
>bus back to his place and have sandwiches for dinner
>we cuddle on the couch and watched movies for a few hours waiting for his roommate to go to bed
>I take a shower and wait for him on his bed
>he comes and closes the door, we talk about how nervous I am doing anal so we instead decide to just do oral
>he blows me a little so I know how to do it
>I go down on him and jerk him off while sucking on him
>alternate between sucking, jerking, making out, etc.
>tell him he should start pulling my hair and getting rough and he gets really into it
>starts forcing his cock down my throat until im gagging
>he comes in my mouth and I swallow all of it
>he calls me a good boy and we start spooning
>fall asleep with him playing with my hair
Did I still lose my virginity if all I did was blow him?
>there are cishets posting on this board
Not really (though virginity is a pretty flexible concept). Sounds like you had fun. Think you'll actually do anal with the guy?
>>8718425
Possibly, he wants to do it. I just need some practice first
I love story time
Congrats OP, you glorious faggot you
>>8718444
That's wise. The first guy I messed around with wanted to go from a blowjob to anal, but I couldn't even take two fingers. When I finally did it last week, it took some patience, good positioning, and a lot of lube to make it work. Just be careful.
>>8718414
Who ?
>>8718480
>That's wise
>anal sex
>wise
You're the definition of insanity.
>>8718399
Congrats!
Eh, it's losing your virginity if it feels like it was. Some gay guys never do anal and stick to oral.
>>8718414
t. Judith Butler
>>8718414
"Straight-acting" gays LARPing
>>8718505
I'm an absolute madman.
>>8707727
Drink tea, eat soup and salads. Get clean.
If it isn't too much lube it's not enough.
>>8714372
Doesn't matter. Had sex.
>>8718424
>Implying I'm trans
>>8714372
Prove it.
>>8724367
You can't prove a negative, so the burden of proof is on you.