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Apologies for being long winded and dumb here, I don't know

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Apologies for being long winded and dumb here, I don't know how else to write. Anyways, do/did gay guys ever get nervous around girls/women when they still thought they were straight?

Reason I'm asking is because I'm a 21 year old dude, used to think I was straight, now realize I'm bi, but starting to worry I might be full on gay (I know I shouldn't worry but hey its a big thing to accept). Anyways, recently as I'm starting to become more okay with being bi I've noticed my attraction to women has been dwindling. I've been getting off to primarily gay porn and when I do watch straight stuff I find myself more and more self inserting as the girl (imagination faps to hetero stuff are now basically impossible). I know it'd be better to get real world experience with this but I'm basically a virgin shut in so this is all I got to work with.

Anyways I've often heard of closeted gays dating or having relationships with women before realizing or accepting their sexuality, so to get back to the original question, is it possible that all my past feelings for girls were informed by some desire to stick to the norm? Would it make any sense for me to act like such a sperg around girls if I were actually gay? I feel like I have had intense kind of crushes on girls in the past, but again now I'm doubting everything.
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pic sorta related? I've always thought Anna a cute, but how do I actually know I think Anna a cute???
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>>8693247
I don't think a girl has thought I am straight since I was 16.
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>>8693247
Pretty much my same experience. I really don't know what to think of it either.
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>>8693247
>Would it make any sense for me to act like such a sperg around girls if I were actually gay?
no anon...

>Reason I'm asking is because I'm a 21 year old dude, used to think I was straight, now realize I'm bi, but starting to worry I might be full on gay (I know I shouldn't worry but hey its a big thing to accept). Anyways, recently as I'm starting to become more okay with being bi I've noticed my attraction to women has been dwindling. I've been getting off to primarily gay porn and when I do watch straight stuff I find myself more and more self inserting as the girl (imagination faps to hetero stuff are now basically impossible). I know it'd be better to get real world experience with this but I'm basically a virgin shut in so this is all I got to work with.

>I've been getting off to primarily gay porn and when I do watch straight stuff I find myself more and more self inserting as the girl (imagination faps to hetero stuff are now basically impossible).
>self inserting as the girl
...you are the girl.
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>>8693247
I used to have crushes on girls until I got in high school. My cousins talked about hentai and I decided to check it out myself. Then I realized I prefer watching Goku get fucked instead of Sailor Moon.

I still think women are cute, but not enough to fuck them.
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>>8693277
>...you are the girl.
Eh I really really doubt that. I'm pretty cool with being a dude, and outside of being pretty short have fairly masculine-ish characteristics, which I quite like about myself. Due to some maybe questionable experiences in my childhood I might have a slight crossdressing fetish, which would explain the self inserting thing, but outside of jerkin it it's really not an issue. Also straight porn just tends to be all around produced better.
>>8693279
>I still think women are cute, but not enough to fuck them.
That's an interesting thought, not sure if it applies to me yet though. I haven't had a real crush on a girl in a bit, but again that's probably more due to me being a shut in.

I don't mean to sound like too much of a creep, but the last time I remember feeling a really strong desire to uh, fuck, a girl that I knew irl was about a year ago. Had a slight crush developing on a girl in one of my classes and for whatever reason we had to stand really close to each other, and I remember smelling her perfume and feeling some weird fucking primal animalistic urge come over me, if you catch my drift. So I basically used that to justify me not being gay for a while, but now I just worry that might be a " the lady doth protest too much" type situation.

so yeah idk. maybe I just need to get out more.
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>>8693247
Yes.

I still don't really speak to them
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>>8693247
>>8693332
I feel like a completely gay dude wouldn't have multiple images of their shitty 3d waifu saved on their computer.
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>>8693450
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>>8693332
>Due to some maybe questionable experiences in my childhood I might have a slight crossdressing fetish,
Tell us.
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>>8693247
ew no, it always pissed me off my when my friends starting acting all weird when a girl talked to me or them, like they'd go from fun guys to total pussy yes men and I just wanted to slap them and say "act normal you retard", you are definitely not gay OP
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>>8693247
>used to think I was straight

How the fuck does anyone not know they're gay the moment the start feeling any sort of sexual attraction?
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>>8693590
because boys like girls is heavily pushed everywhere and you see it all around you in school and life, I didn't feel any attraction to girls in school so I just didn't think about it, most people think they're going to be normal, not op btw
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>>8693505
yes pls
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>>8693608
Did you not feel any sexual attraction or other feelings for anyone at all?
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>>8693621
I had some odd fantasies about a couple of my male friends and maybe I stared at some boys and thought they looked "cool" but I didn't think it was too weird
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