Hey, legbutts, how do I become bi? I'm a guy, and I had

>>8679118
youre gay

>>8679137
I know, I have sex with males

I'm trying to become bi

I have the same problem

I can get hard to straight porn no problem. I bet I could with girls and have in the past even just from hugging.

But dude sex is just something else by which I'm judging that I'm not bi. I read that bi people have proper raging libidos just for both sexes. I just wouldn't want to lose the vestigial attraction to the opposite sex. Really important to me.

>>8679149
Yes! I would cuddle my ex for like half an hour, smell the back of her neck and just get horny.

But then we wouldn't start right away, we'd make out and get in the mood. When I hooked up with another girl later she just wanted me to feel her up and put it in. I can't do that because I'm not attracted to vagina.

But if I get horny in the first place I can enjoy it.

>>8679242

I think we're just fags mate

bis have a real sex drive for women, like seeing one on the street and holy shit they are rock hard. I used to be that way as a kid but since then it faded, I didnt even notice until this year ;/

>>8679252
I'm definitely a fag.

Well, I bottom with men; so I'd prefer it if women topped me. But how the fuck am I supposed to find a woman who's into pegging?

The time I hooked up with the FTM was a moment of clarity since at least with the cis girl I could use some AGP to get semi-hard. With the FTM, I realized nothing about ass and tits turned me on in real life. Sometimes I get some excitement looking at >>>/s but in real life I couldn't get hard even getting my dick sucked (since I'm a bottom, I don't enjoy that)

But I do remember that the times my ex ovulated I had a hard-on for her. She also started fights with me over nothing during that time because of PMS, so it's something biological on both counts.

>orientation is malleable
The stench of desperation.

>>8679118
>>8679149
you're bi since you have attraction for both sexes duh

>>8679304
I have romantic attraction to women, but only cocks turn me on.

When I was with an FTM I couldn't get it up. I still finished while having a chubby and having him hold the base of my penis with his hands as kind of a manual cock ring. That's forced af.

I'd rather just date the girl I have a crush on, but I don't think she will want to date me if I can't get it up.

>>8679312
>I have romantic attraction to women
gays don't feel that, never.
Plenty of bi who have sexual attraction for a one gender, and have romantic attraction for another one. You can still ask your gf to peg you, or have a threesome

>>8679321
well this girl probably won't want to date me if I don't fuck her hard (we tried twice and it was disappointing for both either time)

and I have issues topping because I can't get hard - is there something I can do?

The only way I could finish is by thinking of dicks

>>8679327
Find an asexual gf.

>>8679330
if we're going to go that far I might as well find a cute MTF that tops

...you're right, an asexual GF is probably a hundred times more likely

you can be 80% attracted to one sex and 20% attracted another, that's not abnormal. i always thought of sexuality as a sliding scale of attraction, sometimes i go through periods of preferring one over the other and then switching. if you have a problem with it, idk maybe cut back on porn alltogether for a while. or fuck only girls for a while until you get used to it? it doesn't really matter that much, take or leave my advice.

>>8679118
sounds agp

>>8679487
yeah, I'm pretty AGP

and I don't really care, I just want to be able to top women

>>8679505
explains everything
date a boy
get meta-romantic attraction already

>>8679576
I dated a guy, but I didn't feel attraction to him

this is because he wasn't cute, guys aren't cute

kissing a guy is just gross, I don't get enjoyment out of it, then it's just tasting the inside of another person's mouth

I didn't like cuddling with him either. So if I only enjoyed the sex, why would I date him?

>>8679588
be more psbi

You see we have gay guys here wishing that they where bi. For obvious and practical reasons.

Now if we just give it a few days you can gaurantee there is going to be some bisexual character complaining about 'how hard they have it' compared to gay men. Its ridiculous.

>>8679588
>just tasting the inside of another person's mouth
sounds hot desu

>>8679610
I literally can't

>>8679658
yes you can
start having more romantic agp thoughts

>>8679657
only if you like the person

if you don't have any feelings for them it's just gross