Just recently realized that I'm bisexual. Apparently falling in love with dudes is gay, but falling in love with girls at the same time means I'm bi. Who knew?
Anyway, I'm with a girl and I'm positive that we're going to get married. Should I come out to my parents and girlfriend? I've got a poll here:
http://www.strawpoll.me/13600166/r
Feel free to comment.
>>8663300
Tell your girlfriend anon, she deserves to know. Especially if you marry her, you don't want to hide something like that for years and years. Be prepared for her to assume it means you're not attracted to her and/or you'll cheat, which isn't really fair but it's what bisexuals get. Let her know she's still all you need.
>>8663307
But... how? I'm tempted to do some joke or meme or some cringey shit like that but I'm guessing I'd be better off just texting her seriously.
>>8663300
I wouldnt. You're in a super committed relationship and unless you're a cheating asshole then it doesnt matter, it would only create stress.
>>8663319
Texting her?
Don't marry her. Or anyone else any time soon.
>>8663300
I voted to girlfriend, but I would like to caution you; when you tell her you're Bi, do not go telling her than you want to fuck guys or she will leave you! Just tell her you have and still do find some guys attractive.
>>8663300
>falling in love with dudes
So you're in love with your gf?
And now you're "in love" with "dudes"?
Is there an actual person or people?
Or are you just realizing that you can't be faithful?
I try to be understanding of bisexuals but they always just come across as lying, cheating, self-centered assholes.
>>8663703
Or that's how he just phrased his attraction to both sexes. Like if I said "I like dudes" and you bust my balls saying that I'm a slut for liking more than one dude because you're reading super hard into it.
>>8663918
I just think it is sad that men cheat on their girlfriends rather than tell them that they are gay.