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tl;dr:Im not gay but I think my my gay male friend with benefits

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tl;dr:Im not gay but I think my my gay male friend with benefits and I are catching feelings....

>be me 23 year old straight guy
>gay guy I met keeps calling me cute and stuff
>eventually we fuck(me on top)
>we've been fuck buddies for like 2 months now, we text like every day
>he works at a hotel in a city like an hour away
>he gets free room sometimes
>Go over at like 5PM yesterday
>spend the night barhopping, fucking, and listening to some local band
>first time really spending time together not having sex
>Have tons of fun, really great time
>lay in bed watching TV and fucking all morning
>says he really likes me and hasn't even wanted to sleep with any other guys since we've been fucking(I guess this is out of character for him?)
what the FUCK do I do? I like him but I'm just not gay enough for a relationship with a dude I dont think, like when I watch gay porn I feel sick.
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>no homo bro
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>>8653976
haha epic ftw meme!
But im literally not gay, idk how I even ended up in this situation
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>>8653962
Let the guy fall in love with someone else. Better end it and find another fuck buddy.
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>>8653983
you're a guy and you enjoy having sex with another guy and also hanging out with him but you think you're not gay because you don't like gay porn?

dude are you fucking serious
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>>8653988
>>8653983
like at least accept that you might be bi jesus christ how is this so hard for people
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>>8653986
Im too L O Y A L, and Like the dude a lot, like I feel like we just hit it off really well

>>8653994
Is bi even real tho?? The meem I always heard was that BIs were just attention seeking edgelords, and I dont wanna be that
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""""""""""""""""""""""""straight""""""""""""""""""""""""""

This is what we call cognitive dissonance.
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>>8654002
>Is bi even real tho?? The meem I always heard was that BIs were just attention seeking edgelords, and I dont wanna be that

it's time you got of 4chan and based your decisions on memes

people saying bi's don't exist is just biphobia
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>>8654014
I like women A LOTE more physically, im not even sexually attracted to the masculine traits in men tbqh
Like a feminine looking (male) is really not gay to top
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>>8654002
>"straight"
>no plan on having a long-term monogamous relationship with the fag
>knows that the fag is falling in love
>will still keep its hopes up to use it as a cum bucket
good job, m8
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>>8654002
>I always heard was that BIs were just attention seeking edgelords, and I dont wanna be that
Did you hear this from 4chan?

>>8654045
>really not gay
It is gay.

You're bisexual.

Sorry if you don't like the memes.
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>>8654068
I just wanna be friends that have fun and stuff
I dont feel like im misrepresenting my intentions here, we've been casual fwb's before anything else. He told me that he didnt want me to "have sex with any other guys, but didnt care about girls", which I can easily do because Im not really attracted(Sexually) to guys.
Plus I don't think I could really ever "date" a guy, because even last night when we went out I just felt like EVERYBODY knew, im a pretty shredded dude and felt like everybody was laughing at me thinking im a fag or whatever.
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>>8654115
>Plus I don't think I could really ever "date" a guy, because even last night when we went out I just felt like EVERYBODY knew, im a pretty shredded dude and felt like everybody was laughing at me thinking im a fag or whatever.
If you're a "pretty shredded dude", why are you so afraid of people and what they might think of your boyfrie--er, "fwb"?

I doubt your story. Post pictures if you're so /fit/
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I have had "relationships" with guys that were supposed to be just casual sex. No strings attached. I'm a serial monogamist which means I'll only have a casual sex relationship with one guy at a time.

Most of them end because the other guy develops feels and wants more but I don't. I have that problem right now and the guy is starting to ghost me, which is fine. I'll just move on.
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>straight
>male fuckbuddy
what did OP mean by this?
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>Im not gay but
mods can u ban every thread and post that includes this
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>>8654045
bisexuals can have preferences so maybe ur just like 90% into women and 10% into man or smth
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>>8654419
>>Im not gay but
>mods can u ban every thread and post that includes this

what do you mean by that?
Is it really that common for "straight" guys to be in denial?
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>>8654608
yes
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>>8654607
>90% into women and 10% into man
so pretty much straight then?
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>>8653962
>fucking all morning
>I'm just not gay enough

*clears throat*

and to answer your question about how to slow down a relationship that is moving to fast:
let him know that you are having sex with other people and that you have no desire to be exclusive with him. otherwise, just enjoy it.
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>>8654624
it means the guy ur fucking with falls under that 10%
I guess u could call urserlf pretty much straight
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>>8654624

It could be a 1% preference, but it doesn't make you straight. You should worry less about being straight and more about what you think of him. You seem to like doing things outside of sex with him, after all.
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>I like where this is going
what did he mean by this?
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You're a bisexual in denial. If you had sex with him, and enjoyed it, then you're DEFINITELY gay or bi. My advice is, if you have feelings for him just go for it, if you don't, tell him to not develop feelings either. But you shouldn't keep yourself in denial, that's bad for you
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>I can't feel the way I feel because it doesn't fit my preferred label
>I can't feel the way I feel because it does not live up to my porn fantasy

fucking millennials
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>>8654744
>I like where this is going

translation: I am super into you but don't want to speak too seriously too quickly
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>>8654002
>Is bi even real tho?? The meem I always heard was that BIs were just attention seeking edgelords, and I dont wanna be that
You're a retard. You're literally bisexual you fucking mong.
You are having sex with another man and enjoying it. You are not straight.
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>>8654995
>having sex with another man and enjoying it.
>not straight.
wow...close minded much?
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>>8654999
some str8 bois like peni
chuck yer pribbledge
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>>8653962
You're gay. Deal with it and blow him.
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>>8653962
you're a lot gayer than i am and i'm a woman in a long-term relationship with another woman
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>>8654002
>Is bi even real
Well, I'm here so I guess it must be real
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>>8653962

You're bisexual, not straight.
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>>8654045
OP. OP. You're bi with a female preference. Get over it.
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How did it start out? Did he give you a bj first and work it up from there? What sort of stuff do you guys do? How's his ass? Come on, we need details.
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>>8656540
Yeah BJ first, then doggy sex...now we have sex all sorts of ways
Its kinda fun because he likes me to like abuse him and stuff
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>>8656762

Ever think about taking it?
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I like stories like OP's because they're going to act like it's a big deal that they're a faggot. Oh by the way OP you're a fucking faggot.
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>>8653962
>fucks a gay
>calls himself straight
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>straight
>sex with men
>is not in prison
how?
just how?
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another bites the dust at the hands of a biscum
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>>8656762

It sounds like you genuinely like being with him, even if it's primarily sexual. I could go on about different labels you could use to avoid calling yourself bi(st8, curious, heteroflexible, etc) but there's really no harm in not being straight. Memes and stereotypes are poor reflections of what a person is actually like. Do you see yourself keeping this up for a while, or breaking it off when you bored?

t. A bisexual who's had less gay sex than you have.
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