Went out with a friend last night, he is gay im straight. He blew me. I finished in his mouth. But throughout that or making out I felt nothing. Just indifferent, didnt like it immensely but didnt not enjoy the blowie.
I feel like attraction is very subjective, and its not as black and white as "you had x with gay fellow, you are bi". Ive only ever had a desire for twink types, or super fem. But feel nothing for any other guy types.
To add to that, theres nothing emotionsl behind it.
What am I? What do? Do I just have athing for being dominant and pleasured?
if you're attracted to both men and women you're bi, it doesn't matter what "types" of guys you like, everyone has a fucking type, its not that complicated so stop trying to be some fascinating unique snowflake.
you do whatever the fuck you want, its your life. if you want to get blowjobs from people you're not attracted to, then go ahead.
>>8653265
Hey, your most likely bi even if they are the twink types.
I guess you can try get to know someone that is twink or super fem, it should be a good start.
Idk, about being dominated. You will need to figure that yourself.
>>8653265
Congrats, you're a straight guy with no complex about his sexuality. That's how doing something sexual that you're not into should feel like - like nothing. That's how women feel when they make out with other women for guy's attention or pretend to totally be hot for each other in porn.
The reason why so many straight guys find gay sex or gays disgusting is entirely cultural and religious and not biological or sexual.
>>8653315
I can see that, good luck op.
>>8653347
Still unsure what that means for me, am I just dead inside? Should i go to a therapist and see why i cant develop emotions like i used to?
Im not sure if youre implying that i find thr gay community gross, i love them.
>>8653364
By chance do people tell you that you are boring? I'm trying to insult you. Sorry if it does.
>>8653364
*not. Well shttt.
>>8653371
Lol i would like to think they tell themselves that. Yes
>>8653364
>Still unsure what that means for me, am I just dead inside?
It means you're normal. You're not supposed to get excited about sexual orientation you aren't into. If you were gay fucking a woman should excite you precisely 0 and same way in reverse if you're straight.
>>8653395
You have a point. I guess im just confused. Porn has fucked me up
>>8653410
Cut back on the porn...
>>8653454
Not OP but porn addiction is a real thing, especially nowadays with easy access to trillions of hours of porn.
>>8653537
I should have went to the porn business, my only regret. I could have made millions by just hosting a server.
Ancient greeks and the Japanese warrior class used to practice pederasty. Most men enjoyed fucking girly/effeminate boys.
There was no concept of sexuality, it was just a reality that boyish young men has feminine features and they found it attractive.
That people insist on putting a label on things is unhelpful
>>8653347
>That's how women feel when they make out with other women for guy's attention or pretend to totally be hot for each other in porn.
I don't buy it.
>>8653744
Do you mean young boys? Like pedo's? Cause that looks like a child...
>>8653315
you're heteroromantic, but still bisexual