So my girlfriend and I (mtf, obviously, this is /ttttttttttttt/) had non penetrative sex yesterday, for the first time in months. My problem is, I still get erections when aroused, and SRS is a year away. How the fuck do I kill my dick.
I want nothing to do with it, and I hate that it gets erect (and that its fucking there). Like I cant just mess up her sex life because of my crippling dysphoria, but I cant fucking have sex.
Please help
Im on spiro cause amerifat
Another AA to switch to? Chastity shit?
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Talk to your doctor
>MTF w/ GF
How did you do this and do you have any advice?
>>8603881
Be MtF. Date a girl.
That's all it takes.
>>8603881
be in boymode dating, come out after 1.5 years of relationship, but sort of guilt her into staying.
>>8603873
The chastity idea can be a bit cringy due to people always relating it to some kind of sissy / AGP fetish but it would most likely work.
Still weird as fug though.
Also please explain to me how you both had sex. I'm not into other girls so I can't for the life of me imagine how you two had sex if both you were bottoms like me.
>>8603897
so due to crippling genital dysphoria, I despise sensation on my dick--like I actually hope my srs surgeon fucks my sensation there, so I dont have to feel my rearranged phantom franken dick--so my nipples are fucking phenomenally sensitive: I orgasm from nipple stimulation (and lactate all over the place, its fucking disgusting afterwards). She is cis and totally fine with her genitalia, so I go down on her, either with manual stimulation, or lingual.
Make out alot. Its like this sensual, intimate sex that is just amazing.
Its weird, we both get off to it.
>>8603873
If you're getting SRS soon you probably shouldn't kill your dick now. Even with a scrotal inversion you'll want as much stretchy, flexible, healthy tissue as possible. Just tough it out, it will be gone soon enough.
>>8603912
I wish I could cum from my nipples right now the best I can do is from my butt.
Sometimes I'm too lazy and I just grab one of those back massagers and put in the front since I never get hard anyways.
I don't have as much genital dysphoria tbqh. I would probably enjoy sex more if I had a vagina though, I'm not a super fan of anal.
>>8603897
OP is AGP though?
>>8603912
>so due to crippling genital dysphoria, I despise sensation on my dick--like I actually hope my srs surgeon fucks my sensation there, so I dont have to feel my rearranged phantom franken dick
You want an insensitive neovagina just because it used to be your dick?
That sounds absolutely awful.
>>8603933
yeah, I guess. The fulltime a year thing is total Bs though--like this has been an issue since forever ago, but I finally had the independence to transition--so I still have to wait, despite passing more or less.
But yeah, like Ive heard of trannies not getting morning wood (I get it once a week maybe?) or getting erect from arousal, and I was hoping it was something that I could adjust with my regimen (cypro instead of spiro, ect)
>>8604070
>>8603961
I so wish that it wasnt so bad. Like it was really bad as a kid, realized what trans people were, realized I needed to do that, but also needed companionship, so I got forced into having sex for years--cause like "oh I hate my dick" raises so many questions.
>>8604060
Almost as if blanchards bullshit was completely overgeneralized, and every case of transsexuality has varying elements, mostof which fall outside the norms of the HSTS/AGP binary
>>8604370
>someone memes about AGP fetish
>someone mentions what AGP is
>"Almost as if blanchards bullshit was completely overgeneralized"
>>8604384
Sorry, I'm too autistic--what are you trying to say?
>>8603896
sometimes I go to /r/mypartneristrans and there are a lot of dejected SOs rationalizing their decision to stay in a relationship to someone they are no longer attracted to for what I imagine is political reasons or a misplaced sense of responsibility or guilt or something -- some of those stories are really rough, like women who are in a sexless loveless marriage with a selfish brat after their husband transitions
yikes -- don't forget to stick up for number one, anons
>>8605406
>some of those stories are really rough, like women
abloobloo, poor cis females.
>>8605447
yes, exactly, I'm sure this attitude is part of their rationalization process
>>8605406
I was such a fucking mess when I came out, that she felt guilty to leave. Reading how I typed that made it sound like I manipulated her, but I she felt guilty to leave because of my state. I was certainly not in a position to be able to manipulate someone at that time.
We probably wont last long term
>Transbian
Hello AGP