I got a question for all the young MtF people on here. What do

>>8574692
I'm your same age, a hon, and have a fiance

Sounds like hypergamy is your problem

>>8574707
I won't just desperately marry anyone just to be married.

>>8574726
Who said you should do that?

Your subjective estimate of your own attractiveness plays a huge role in determining who you are attracted to.

It's not like ugly people and fat people pretend to feel attracted to one another in relationships, they really do love eachother.

You say you look cis, maybe you are even beautiful, but that doesn't change the fact you are trans, this just sadly makes you far less attractive than any cis person.

You should reappraise your sexual market value. Your problem is psychological, there are plenty of great guys your age you are overlooking probably.

>>8574692
Deal with it like any woman who is infertile imo? I'm sure there are like forums for that.

>>8574756
I refuse to lower my standards.
They only difference between me and a cis female is the ability to become pregnant.
And even some cis women can't get pregnant in case you forgot.
So should they lower their standards as well?
Anyways I didn't ask for any advice because I'm clearly capable of handling things myself.
I wanted to hear what other people are expecting their future to be like.
I just added a few lines about myself because I didn't expect having any trouble finding a suitable husband in my future.

>>8574692
i expect to establish a nation-state in the south pacific through economic means and ruthlessly dominate the surrounding region

No matter how elaborate a costume is, its still just a costume.

>>8575630
Sounds like a reasonable goal tbqh.

>>8574692
How do gay men manage not being able to have children?

Unrelated but are you bi or straight?

>>8574773
>I refuse to lower my standards.
Yea that is the problem. Imagine an ugly fat girl that won't settle for anyone but Brad Pit.

As a passing/attractive tranny its counter-intuitive, because you feel entitled to a partner befitting your perceived sexual market value, which going by appearances alone is much higher than it really is.

Though it doesn't feel fair to be judged for your transexual status, you judge people for similar factors outside their control. It's not any more unfair than possessing physical deformities, debilitating mental illness, infertility, being generally unattractive, it all comes from genes and circumstances outside of our control.

You had a lot more luck with relationships and guys when you were younger because men at that age aren't really looking for long term relationships and starting families.

Your sexual market value is probably on par with a single mother of similar age, it's gonna be hard as hell to secure anything other than a really beta man.

You don't have to feel depressed about this though, you just need to understand the reality.

>>8576002
A lot of gay people consider not being able to have kids a blessing
kids are horrible lol

>>8576116
I used to feel that way until hrt

I wish I could go back, it's depressing

>falling for breeder propaganda
Just because your kids dont look like you doesnt mean you cant love them.
Theres literally nothing wrong with adoption and theres a lot of kids who need it.

>>8576108
or she can just adopt so she can circumvent her standards just a little bit to get what she wants in a man. Op I seriously recommend you do this. You just have to accept that you can't get pregnant but that's ok.

Thats what cis women who can't get pregnant do. I'm in a similar boat you are in but I'm 24 so currently I am not concerned but I have already accepted that as my reality when the time comes. The best thing that helped me was when my dad told me it was a very noble thing to do to adopt instead of having biological kids.

>>8576153
there is many thing wrong with adoption. You are getting a totaly unknown person with possible mental issues that your family could not know how to deal with.

Like those poor people that got a kid from really disfuctional family (they didn't know at first). And after year and years giving the kid everything he needed like love, attention and education he landed with drugs and personality disorder anyway like his bio parents.

Giving a birth you at least know what you getting yourself into.

I'm already in love with someone who supports my transition.

>>8576521
>You are getting a totaly unknown person with possible mental issues that your family could not know how to deal with.

Yeah, 'cause there's no possible mental issues lurking around in the genome of any tranny that browses this website regularly. None at all. :^)

>>8574692
I'm going to find myself a guy who doesn't want kids, or is okay with adoption. I had cancer, and one major side effect of one chemo drug was permanent infertility, so even as a cis girl I'd be infertile too, or if I had never transitioned I'd still be infertile. I've made my peace with it, and adoption sounds nice anyway.

>>8574692
Sounds like your issue is more relatable to infertile cis women than the trannies here.

Keep being with my closest friend whos also my partner we are getting married soon

Finish schooling

Get my papers in check

Come out to the rest of my family etc

Its easier when you pass, all of this

>>8576521
>You are getting a totaly unknown person with possible mental issues that your family could not know how to deal with.

This applies just as much to biological children too. Not all congenital mental conditions are genetic and even the ones that are can be latent.

You think the parents of Adalia Rose expected to have a kid with progeria? Or Barb and Bob expected to have Chris-chan?

>>8578519

>>8579538
Damn phone!
I wrote such a great essay about having kids and now it's all gone.

>>8574692
dead before 35 whether i end up passing or not tbqh

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>I can't have children, it's tearing me up inside that I'll never be a mother
That sounds so sad and awful
>Adopting is the last thing I want to do
Oh wait nevermind fuck off you silly cunt

Just a little reminder that it's hard as hell to adopt a white kid and that you'll most likely end up with some foreign kid and make your potential husband look like a cuck senpai.

>>8580203
>implying I am not brown

>>8580216
>implying most people on here aren't white

>>8574692
>What do you expect your future to look like?

Hopefully not yours. I wish I could have a cute bf but like, the only dudes who date transwomen are generally absolutely pathetic and unappealing. Like I've decided to just exclusively date women because somehow the women willing to date trannies are significantly less beta than the men willing to. I've got a cute butch gf, I hope we'll get married some day, my relationship with her is probably more emotionally fulfilling than one with a man anyways. I do hope that maybe I'll get reincarnated into a cis girl in a next life and actually have the option of being with a worthwhile man, it'd be nice but I know it's gonna happen. Honestly I do actually have a really hard time accepting settling for women, but ah well, I know a relationship with a dudes is just not in the cards for me.

>>8574770
>telling trans "women" to invade cis women's spaces

>>8578244

Should've read to the end of that anon's post.

>Giving a birth you at least know what you getting yourself into.

:^)

>>8574692
A couple things.
First, 'not being able to have children' is not the reason why men don't want you. It's because you're 31 and desperate, and probably not as conventionally attractive as the girls in their early to mid-20's. Trans and real women have to deal with it and it's a real issue. No special snowflake points.
Secondly, what the fuck do you have against adoption? If you really cared about having a family, it is a reasonable option that can get you one.
Thirdly, if you won't remove the stick out of your twat about adoption,consider surrogacy to pass on your genes or those of your partner. UK scientists are about 5 years away from being able to genetically engineer viable eggs and sperm from stem cells. Should cost about 30 to 100 thousand USD.

>>8582234
confirmed for angry adopted bitterhon

>>8580315
>telling women they aren't women