At what point should someone give up on transitioning?
>started at 26
>1 year 3 months not seeing much changes
>get called sir and bro constantly
>no hips and probably not gonna change
>have cone boobs on a man body
>constantly obsess over the little things cis woman have and young trans girls have that I can never have
Should I just come to the realization that transitioning isn't meant for someone like me?? Like I hated being a guy, but it's not getting any better for me. I know life would be easier for me if I give up on this and stay a guy even for a manlet I wasn't doing to bad, but I won't be happy and probably go back to my shitty habits that ruined my body and health. Still let's be real I'm not young anymore.
you growing out your hair?
getting rid of your facial hair?
wearing girl clothes?
practising skin care and makeup?
practising voice?
Same as you except taller and been on hrt a few months more. Mostly given up on life, too old to expect any kind of happiness. I'm basically just passing the time until I can't survive it anymore.
Dysphoria is cancer, and if it's not caught early enough it goes terminal. I'm just taking my "chemo" to dull the pain a bit until it kills me
>>8573309
>you growing out your hair?
Yea but it's not straight or nice so it's puffs up rather than go down and makes it worse for me.
>getting rid of your facial hair?
it's almost gone but I didn't have much to begin with so it's barely there anymore with a quick shave
>wearing girl clothes?
>Practicing skin care and makeup?
I was for a bit but even having make up on my face and being in girls clothes I got called sir, last time I presented all I got were people trying to fight me or people yelling shit to me because I don't look anything like a woman so I just gave up trying recentlt honestly. Plus I have really bad skin like really bad my body is just a mess in general. I could get away with it as a guy but no one wants me after they see me naked as I am now
practising voice?
Yea it's okay I can get by.
>>8573314
Iktf its pretty shit is it better to keep going on hormones though?
>>8573295
>not young anymore
27 is still young, friend
>constantly obsess over the little things cis woman have and young trans girls have that I can never have
What things? How do you define young trans girl?
>>8573399
>27 is still young, friend
Not in transition years
>What things? How do you define young trans girl?
Have you seen the hon threads around here they're mostly older transitioners like me. Theres like a couple that pass yeah but usually its not so great. Not only that they have a better chance at passing and being living they're life earlier while I'm still tryin to play catch up. Idk
>>8573647
what's young in transition years?
>>8573685
25 is "you're fucked" zone
20-25 is a distinct disappointment
18-19 is a gamble
<18 is lucky bastard
Hopefully someday the SJWs will get us to the point where all children are biologically androgynous and pick a sex when they're ready
>>8573710
Now, that's not to say that <18 is a guarantee, either
you can be plenty masc by 16
but it's still the best we have
>>8573295
>At what point should someone give up on transitioning?
When you start to transition at 26 and expect 1 year of mones without much pshycal effort to turn you into an anime girl.
>>8573710
>a distinct disappointment
In terms of what?
>>8573749
I don't want to be an anime girl though I just want to be normal woman. And like I said I tried but it doesn't work out for me. My manly face in makeup and my square body in skinny jeans and a womans top it doesn't look right at all I'm fucked basically
>>8573791
Wear a fit and flare dress