Feels thread? >be me >dating wonderful guy >also a

Mm, nope. I only date bi people. Current long-term BF met me when I was a boy and has loved me and supported me through every step of my transition. We're happier than ever. Feels good man.

>gets pissed for me refusing to call him a she
Well, she is a she and you should make an attempt to use the right pronouns even if you fuck up sometimes, but...

>keeps on telling me I'm wrong for not being attracted to him
I'm sorry about this part. I don't understand why other trans people insist on not getting that other people's sexual orientations are legitimate. If you're dating someone monosexual, it makes no sense to hold it against them for dumping you if you transition.

I did date someone briefly who deliberately concealed his own conflicted gender issues (not willing to transition, but hiding a huge fem streak and desire to basically "play girl" while alone) until we were several weeks in and then sprung it on me. I wasn't too pleased, because I did not intend to date a really fem guy - MY being trans didn't magically make that not matter to me, either. (I am actually bi, so this was less of an issue than it would have been otherwise. But I was specifically attracted to his more masculine aspects, so having him suddenly go, "SURPRISE DRAG" was not pleasant.)

I only date bi people (preferably those who have a dating history that includes trans people) myself so I avoid this kind of issue with them being wigged by my transition or only attracted to the sex I don't want to be.

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>>8573444
First of all nice trips
second of all I just couldn't I had known him so long as he and I couldn't see him for anything other than that. I broke it off after I couldn't deal with it. He went off on me because once I told him I thought I was bi because I liked straight porn for like 2 weeks before finding it completely off putting again and said that I should just be happy for him. Which I was but hey whatever

No, it hasn't happened to me, because I'm not stone dead retarded and actually communicate with my partners like a human being with more than 2 functioning brain cells.

That and I'm everything-sexual. So.... It wouldn't affect anything. lol

Also, he's a she. Just because she reacted to your lack of attraction poorly (seriously, shame on her for that.) doesn't mean you get to act like a dumb twat. Reality doesn't stop for your feelings.

>>8573507
Okay, I kinda get that.

Sounds like she pinned all her hopes of it working out on those couple weeks of straight porn, lol. Sucks. Sorry.

>>8573091
Well hopefully this goes better for my bf cause I'm basically doing this exact same thing to him lmao
I'm okay being a dude with tits for the time being though

>>8573537
It's not because I didn't see her as a she it was because I loved HIM I loved that man and not the woman who he became. I dunno it's just not my type of deal

>>8573535
We did communicate I was just extremely ignorant on how much HRT worked. I just thought it would make him more curvy and have small tits but after awhile it was just full blown woman. And then it got to the point that I wasn't attracted and felt like she was a new person. :/ also I was like 22 and not the brightest