Hallo. I'm 19. I literally have no idea what my orientation is. I'm romantically attracted to women. Not really attracted to men... But I like fantasizing about older men, just not in person/public.
The thought of penis excites me though. Also being girly does too. And being emasculated. Being pegged by a woman doesn't sound fun, but being penetrated by a man does...
I have reservations about all of this. I'm on the fence with being a bottom and being a Dom with women. I never feel both at the same time, only one at a time.
How can I get off the fence and not look back, whichever way I go? Would a mentor help? I've never tried being submissive. But it really turns me on thinking about it, I just feel like a part of me would die if I did it. :(
I feel like, once I stop getting attention from girls in my life, instead of trying harder, I go for men.
ur a fagit
>>8554366
How u no dat?
>>8554357
>how do i get off the fence
by getting off the fence. just get on grindr and see what happens.
most gay men thought they were romantically attracted to women, until they started dating men.
>>8554404
All the guys on grindr don't fit what I'm looking for. I'd like a strict top. I don't sever see at and I'm In A big city
Idk where else to look or if I even shoul
>>8554357
>Hallo.
Hi
>>8554357
>I'm 19.
Ur almost underage, show ID
>>8554357
>I literally have no idea what my orientation is.
get a compass
>>8554357
>I'm romantically attracted to women. Not really attracted to men...
This means that you're attracted to women but not to men
>>8554357
>But I like fantasizing about older men, just not in person/public.
This means that you have a fantasy
>blah blah blah blah blah
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Wat da? Ways agp?
Am I sick?
I'm not showing ID. Lol
>>8554357
AGP
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>>8554684
WAT DA
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What do I do about it
yooo the split attraction model is bullshit. u can't just be solely romantically or sexually attracted to a specific gender cause there's so many other ways to be with a person
it's aight to be into men and women and anyone else and have different preferences with every partner. maybe would help 2 experiment a lil and see if ur fantasies hold true irl
>>8554695
Thanx for the wisdom. It would take me becoming more girly to get the guy I want.. I think. Maybe I just wanna start with a handjob. Seeing how I feel getting a man off. Idk what I'd do with the cum on my hands tho... Or if I'd be able to stop myself from licking him
Also. What if I like it but don't like how I feel after
Update: talking to a bear on pof. He looks familiar...