it's only july and i just got treated for an std for the third time this year jesus christ
i'm not even that big of a slut
I've never had an STD.
You're a slut.
>>8549053
> I'm not even that big of a slut
Yes you are
>Don't sleep around with random people
>Get tested with my monogamous partner when we first started dating
>Disease free and safe with a loving partner
More people really should try it. It's pretty great.
>>8549793
>7 people this year
That's most people's average in their lifetimes, you whorebag.
>>8549793
What would you define as a big slut?
>>8549053
which std?
it really matters
>>8549842
gonorrhea all three times
why does it matter
>>8549853
hepatitis c vs hiv vs gonorrhea vs herpes
it can range from life ruining to "meh"
thats why i cared
>>8549406
are you lesbian lol?
in what world do fags do this?
>>8549860
Plenty do. Some of us even have empathy and the ability to build loving bonds with others that don't rely entirely around physical pleasure!
Crazy thought to bugchasers and hook-up culture subscribers, I know.
>>8549813
>i know people who average like 1-2 partners/week
This is why, you hang out with STD-infested whore crowd and sleep with them and friends they've fugged.
>>8549873
how do you find other gays?
like... there are gay bars and hookup apps, and thats about it?
>>8549902
You meet them in the wild, get to know them over the course of hanging out, and if you see chemistry between the two of you, ask if they'd be willing to go on a date. It's your own work from there.
>>8549929
It's worth noting that a lot more guys in the wild are bisexual or gay than you would thing. You will have to be tactful in figuring this out - Look for any signs, or once you know them, ask them in a respectful way.
It's not as easy as picking up a quick fuck on Grindr. It's also way, way more rewarding to love the person you're having sex with and to share the bond of intimacy.
>>8549053
>got treated for an std for the third time this year
>not big of a slut
>>8549945
there is nothing i'd like more than that
but what you describe is difficult for normal gays, and i'm extremely shy and have severe social anxiety
>>8549406
>tfw you and your partner are both virgins
>>8549053
>not using a condom
Spermicide lube and condoms are my best friends I also ask anyone I'm with if they have been tested and ask to see the results.
>>8550326
gonorrhea could spread orally
and who the fuck wraps it up for oral
>>8550386
Hence why a guy has to be tested first plus that's treatable not anywhere near as life damaging as hiv/aids.
>>8549793
Holy fucking shit, I can't believe you're sore like that! I would have loved to be able to have sex with 7 people in the last TWO years if I had been safe from stuff other than ghonorrhea and chlamydia.
This is why I only fuck virgins/typical 4chan goers. You never have to worry!
>>8550427
funnily enough, if you have insurance, hiv might very well be less serious than syphilis :P