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what age is the final cut off for transition? please say as

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what age is the final cut off for transition?

please say as low as possible so i can just accept i missed my shot, give up and get on with my life.

asking for a friend.
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depends on your face

really though and this sounds honnish but there is no cut off age as long as you feel happier afterwards
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>>8531672
Well if you're 30+ you have to wait until you're old when everyone becomes more androgynous wrinkly blobs and then you'll pass easier.
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>>8531677
>as you feel happier afterwards
i want to pass
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>>8531686
then you're not trutrans and I don't care about you
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24.

t. 24 year old hon
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If you're under 30 just do it OP. If you're older than that I hope you have good genetics. Sometimes even making it past your mid-20's requires pretty good genetics.
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>>8531672
there is none
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>>8531715
she had ffs though
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>>8531701
I'm 24 this makes me want to die desu
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>>8531701
confirming
started at 24, still a hon 1.5y later
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depends

T had already ravaged me and gave me massive ribcage and shoulders by 13, and from that age until now (20) my body structure has not changed at all

Other people have boyish/androgynous small frames and a feminine face clear through their mid-20s
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>>8531710
>If you're under 30 just do it OP.
ill be a hon.
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>>8531754
Everyone always thinks they'll be a hon. What else are you supposed to do? Repress until you're old then kill yourself?
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>>8531774
give up and accept its never going to happen for me.
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>>8531672
they told me it was 16
it was a lot of pressure
but im thankful for the pressure

i guess you could take the SJW route and say
"whatever age is right for you"

but honestly 16.

if you're mtf

if you're ftm, fuck it instant pass.
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>>8531720
at least you know not to transition and to give up and get on with life.

in a way its saved you from transitioning pointlessly.
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>>8531781
In other words repress for another decade or two until it gets much worse and you transition anyway, or kill yourself..
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>>8531754

What is a hon?
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>>8531792
life isnt worth living if im a hon either.
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>>8531719
yes
little-known fact: people who went through even a small portion of the wrong puberty will have skeletal facial structures of the wrong sex (either male ones with mtf, or the inability to develop male ones with ftm) and so will usually require at least some facial surgery to go stealth
this does not preclude transition
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>>8531794
Old unpassable mtf's or just ugly mtf's in general.
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>>8531881
i dont want to have surgery after surgery and still maybe not pass. i just wish i could be cis. i feel like my lifes already over.
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>>8531672
Technically none, as there are those who pass at any age (rare as they may be). But anecdotally, I see very, very few who pass starting in their mid 20s (24-26). Early 20s i still see plenty of passers.
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>>8531715
SMALLL FACE NO JAW REEEEEEEEEEE
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>>8531677
>no cut off age as long as you feel happier afterwards
That's exactly what OP means by a cut off age and you know it REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>>8531881
>this does not preclude transition
it absolutely does. Especially when someone can't buy surgery.
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>>8531881
Im stealth without ffs and i transitioned at 20? I dont think this is as much of a fact, and a bit more of your insecurity, but yeah, its not a bad thing to need ffs, and most people do need it
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>>8532956
What if people just pitty pass you? They likely do.
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>>8533010
Thats a lot of people then since i work 2 jobs at a drugstore and fast food, i get hit on daily by like at least 5 different guys and 2 regulars, but whatever gets you to bed at night right?
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>>8531881
Ftm here, 3 years on T. I am deep stealth and have never had facial surgery. My bones were set when in started, but T thickened my facial/jaw muscles and moved some fat behind my eyebrows. I cannot speak for the MtFs, but I have never met a FtM who required facial surgery.
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>>8532956
>20

Jelly
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13mo on hrt, started just short of 25..
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>>8533395
so unfair
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>>8531672
Thinking about it in terms of age is ignoring your specific situation, and thus giving you a result that will be less accurate. You have to think about it in terms of your face, pretty much. Go post it in that could-I-pass thread and you'll get a much more accurate answer than just considering your age and zero other variables.
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>>8531719
>>8532956

but what is the point of transitioning if you cant afford ffs and likely never will?
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>>8533424
You will literally never be able to afford FFS???? You can't save up that money in any amount of time?
What is your situation?
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>>8533434

i'm working 2 jobs right now just to get by, and every day that i have to go into work and get called "he" and "him" is like being stabbed. it makes it almost impossible to keep a job for more than a few months

and by the time i can finally save $60k for ffs i'll be in my 30s and there will be no point
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>>8533424
At least you'll prevent further damage with hormone, you can take those for however long you want without actually transitioning..
Then if you eventually get to the point simply go with the flow..

Another thing is, passing is great, but that too won't take away the fact you are trans, it won't erase your past, you can go stealth but you'll always know the truth..
Just get on hormones if you want them, dress how you want and live your life.
Life is short anyway and only going downhill with age..
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>>8533458

oh trust me, i know i'll never be a real woman, and i'm ok with that. i just want people to see me how i see myself and be called "young lady" instead of "young man"
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>>8533450
That sucks, I'm sorry to hear that. Why do you need two jobs just to get by? Can you move somewhere cheaper than wherever it is you're living right now? I moved for a job that's like 20k pre-taxes a year, but the rent on my apt is just 500 a month so it's easy to get by.
$60k?
Maybe I'm just less informed but wouldn't that be pretty high end? Do you think you need like a *lot* of work done?
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>>8533485
probably, yeah
>square jaw
>masc cleft chin
>brow batting
>chad nose
>lip lift

i've talked to counselors about this but they all seem to espouse that delusional bullshit about self-acceptance. like, if i don't look like a woman then i'm not living as one, full stop.
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>>8533504
I feel you on that. I would look seriously into what the price would be. A lot of the things I'm looking at have it at like 40k for real top end shit and maybe an average of 20k.
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>>8533450
Meh I'm the same way. I'm 28 now, still have $18k of debt from school left. Barely any savings since I had to buy a new car (bus system where i live is basically nonexistant)
I still take hrt though. Maybe I'll be boymode until I'm 30 i don't know. Life isn't fair but at least maybe I'll have a chance to live my 30s normally unlike all the 40+ year old repressors.
I just started doing things on the side for money like selling pot.
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>>8531672
All these people saying 24 I guess maybe killing myself isn't such a bad idea...
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Don't beat yourself up too bad. I started at 23 and 8 months into hormone therapy I can pass if I don't drape myself in my dude clothes to hide my chest.
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>>8533504
Cleft chins are a gender neutral feature though. Many women have it; it's a genetic feature
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>>8533504
>like, if i don't look like a woman then i'm not living as one, full stop.
It might still be better than repression.
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Transitioned at 31. Pass now.
Just have sense and take baby steps
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>>8535818
>transitioned at 31
>pass
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
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>>8535839
not everyone is a hon, sorry :/
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>>8535844
being a hon is like being a hipster, if you say you're not, you probably are
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>>8535862
Meh, I'll just keep living my normal, happy, passing life while being called a hon on the internet. Sick burn though!
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>>8535862
What about those of us who embrace hondom
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>>8535877
Whatever makes you happy I guess... it's not for everyone.
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>>8535889
I didn't choose the honlife, the honlife chose me
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>>8535818
>Just have sense
male it is then.
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>>8535900
Ouch.
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>>8535862
t. hon
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38
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>>8533450
if you feel that bad you should probs just yolo transition
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>>8533395
how did your eyes become un-hooded?
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mfw i've been trying to get hormones since 15 and i'm only just about to get them at 18
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>>8531672
final cutoff is OP's age -1
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>>8540340
thank you.
t. op
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>>8531672
It's never too late! Dysphoria will only get worse with age.
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>>8540403
[citation needed]
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>>8531672
Generally speaking? 24 for the vast majority. There are a few exceptions, of course, but most will have no chance by this point. The reason is that by now, the face and skeleton are about as masculine as they get (and things only get worse from there, such as male aging, MPB, etc.), and growth hormones lose effectiveness. By now, estrogen will have very little effect, and there's nothing that can be undone. The pelvis has also fused by now, so not even marginal growth is possible. Meanwhile, the shoulders and ribcage have completely finished growing. So even if the face is still okay, most people will still have very masculine bodies by this point. Finally, male body hair is now incredibly difficult to fix, as it's now very thick and coarse on the entire body.

Again, just generally speaking. Some older people have transitioned well. Just don't bet on it unless you've won the genetic lottery.
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>>8540522
I don't think things like the rib cage are done growing at 24. I didn't start developing pectus excavatum until I was around late 26/27ish.
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>>8533395
cute, you looked like girl with fake facial hair in pre. are you HSTS? why did you repress this long, if you dont mind me asking, thanks
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>>8540522
for many it's more like ~21
sure you get even more rekt by T later on but its mostly superficial while all the skeletal changes are alredy done

>unless you've won the genetic lottery.
more like lost in genetic lottery being very underdeveloped and hormone-defficient
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>>8540572
you can't just as a girl if she's hsts!
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>>8540183
Not sure they where?

>>8540572
Lol thanks :^) as for hsts idk, I'm into guys now at least (not that these labels mean much outside of 4chan anyway)..
I repressed for so long because I manged to keep myself away from information, knowledge that there was anything I could possibly do anyway.. kept myself busy with work and more work, then weed to relax before more work again for years.

>>8540637
Skeleton is ever changing as long as you're alive though, I've said once before, I've compared pics of my father from he was 25 to now nearing 50, and not considering stuff like facial hair or balding the changes over these years can be just as great as puberty..
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>>8531672
Someones couldn't pass in their 18s. Someones will pass even if they start in their late twenties. I think the last chances in early 30es.
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>>8531672
0.
You can never become cis.
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>>8540522
I think so, too. I've maybe heard of only a couple of 24+ trannies who were successful
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>>8533323
ftm is easy mode
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>tfw hon and started at 17
>tfw your brow was perfect for a cro mag exhibit at 12
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>>8540522
Body hair sucks but waxing is a thing bruh. A few rounds of that and the hair becomes much finer.
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>>8543771
>ftm is easy mode
[citation needed]
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>>8546430
I don't know about early transition, since that can work out pretty nicely for mtf, but it seems like late transition goes amazingly well for ftm compared to mtf. The transitions I've seen are just incredibly. I'm happy for them, but boy am I jealous.
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>>8546571
Ever think that you only see the incredible ones since they're the ones flaunted/confirmation bias/ftm clocking is still relatively new?

Post op an ftm will be outed wearing a swimsuit due to scars while an mtf can grow her own boobs, for one example, since now people know what top surgery looks like. Unfortunate FtMs look like deformed children
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>>8546796
Obviously, but I don't let every doubt about my perception completely delegitimize it.
Is that an ftm?
I'm not trying to bolster my point, here, but genuinely I would have thought effeminate male.
Like I'm not saying that looks good, but that could enter the men's restroom no problem. Fair point on the swimsuit, though. Still jealous; show me more "bad" ftm transitions.
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>>8531701
>>8540522
>>8540522
One of my friends was a 26 yr old trap who passed well w/o hormones. He was Eastern European too, not asian or some shit like that.

It definitely depends on ur genetics, I've seen 14 yr old hons with huge manjaws and sausage fingers too
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>>8546796
You have a point with the swimsuit but if your pic is an FtM, he looks like a man. Sure, a faggy and a tad ugly man, if only because of lanky he looks, but a man nonetheless. Still, FtM passing is more segmented (i.e. what you said about not passing with a swimsuit even if you pass with normal clothing) whereas MtF passing is more of a matter of "do or don't but don't try".
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>>8547806
Yeah, I think so as well. The FtM is ugly, but won't get misgendered. I'd rather be an ugly woman than a man in a dress desu
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>>8546796
If I could dream as passing as well as whoever this is in your ftm as an mtf, I probably wouldn't think about killing myself as much as I do.
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>>8546796
>>8546869
>>8547806
>Fair point on the swimsuit, though.
Bullshit. Show me the MTF who passes in a swimsuit.
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>>8550449
Never did any of us claim that MtFs passed with swimsuits. We acknowledge that while an FtM might pass with normal clothing it's still a possibility that they might not pass while wearing a swimsuit because top surgery is not perfect.
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>>8550449
I dunno; I think for mtf passing is mostly about face and voice. If they have that then it shouldn't be that hard to pass in a swimsuit.
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idk, 24 maybe? stop asking and just start HRT.

t. 20 y/o hon
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>>8551147
It's both. In that pic the lack of hips is telltale.
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>>8554155
Muscular women sometimes don't have as well defined hips either
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>>8554155
ioh look, yet again another case of "go outside nerd"
not all girls are models, there's so many attractive CIS girls, cute face and all but hips so narrow, butt flatter than a roadkill mouse.
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>>8531672
Depends on the individual. Post a picture, that would help.
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>>8531672
never too late hon :^)
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>>8554155
The people that pretend they can tell that a person is trans by a picture after already having the information that they are trans are sometimes the most transparently lying people I've ever seen.
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