Ok so if I prefer traps and femboys to women but prefer women to regular men is that gay?
It's not gay. But it's also not straight.
yes it's gay, you can have a type, everybody has a type, you have a type and that type is a type of man, so you're bi if you like women too. lesbians are lesbians if they like butch dykes.
You're a bi male with a preference for feminine males. It's that simple