What do you do when your a bi-curious guy and you fall in love

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What do you do when your a bi-curious guy and you fall in love with a lesbian? But she's not completely lesbian? Though very *very* lesbian, like a 5 on the Kinsey. (her words) But she's also your best friend and you're both very close, and have a deep trust and respect for each other, and you feel safe around one another. But that "5" opens up the door just enough that it wont' allow me to ignore it.

the classic conundrum. Do I selfishly risk destroying it all on the chance that she might actually love me in return (highly unlikely) or just let the relationship continue, move on, and take the chance that she might have been trying to say the same thing all along?

I'm making it brief because I keep going on rants when I try to write this, so I can explain more if you want, and details about the situation, but this is the gist. Hope it doesn't come off as callas, but take my word, this is something I feel very deeply about, and I need help from people who probably know more about sexuality, gender and love than I do.