>be attracted to older men "daddy" types when I

>>8522652
were u sexually abused?

>>8522652
soon you shall be the daddy doing the "abusing"
and the cycle continues

>>8522660
I don't think so...
I have this one blurry sorta memory from when I was young but I don't think it was sexual.
growing up though my relationship with my dad was pretty strained, so I kinda had some daddy issues, which might explain the preferences

>>8522652
It's called "maturing"

>>8522652
Yeah me too. I think it's because while the sex with some older guys I dated was great their bodies had some objective signs of decay like flabby skin even if they worked out. The body of younger people is more "solid" and the pheromones they emane are more pleasant.

>>8522688
Can you decribe the blurry memory? Not to say that you lived through hardship, but I repressed a lot of memories when I was abused and they are only surfacing back 16 years later.

Fetishes for maternal figures represents immaturity, a type of nostalgia for when you were happier and unburdened with responsibilities since the maternal figure provided for you.

Fantasies of abuse can stem from a sense of inferiority and a secret desire to be 'punished'.

>itt fags try psych101
WOOPS FREUDIAN SLIP!!!!

>>8524168
I'll try my best. I was quite young, at least younger than 6. It happened in some sort of vehicle, a van or taxi I think. The only ones inside it were me and some man, idk where my family was. Then the man started touching me. I don't really know in the manner he did, but there's some sort of fixation on nipples...
What frustrates me is that I don't know if it actually happened, because some part of me says it was all just a dream I had when I waa young..

>>8523575
>the pheromones they emane

protip: pheremones are odourless

>>8522652
>>8525034
Your experiences are exactly like mine, OP, down to the vague memory.

What is your gender identity like? Do you feel any correlation between these things?

same except depression was dysphoria and I've since transitioned. I still have a touch of a daddy kink but I'm more interested in typical guys my age especially for long term stuff

>>8526199
I'm cis male. don't know if there is a correlation

>>8526357
I feel the same about the long term stuff. I'm much more fixated on relationships than getting off nowadays, so older men are less appealing to me because of the whole different generations, different interests thing.