When people (including guys I have been on dates with) keep saying
>"You have great potential, hun!! So why don't u apply some makeup, mascara and lipstick? And wear better clothes? You will look beautifule af, hunny <3 <3"
But if I did all of that I would look ridiculous, I am sure about that. Why don't they get that I am a hopeless twinkhon? Why do people always like hugboxing you?
If it helps at all. Men do this to all women, it just means you're officially in the shitty club where dudes give you advice about how they think you should look. If your parents had raised you like a girl, the first person to tell you how to look good to guys would most likely be your dad.
>>8520980
>Men do this to all women
>dudes give you advice about how they think you should look
Is that good or bad?
And do they do this to ugly women only? Or really all women including the actually attractive ones?
>>8521033
They do it to everyone. Even the most beautiful girl I've ever know has admitted to going to bed crying once because her dad didn't like her makeup and told her "No man wants a girl who looks like a clown".
I'm not sure why they do it. Part of me thinks it's just them trying to "help". Maybe they assume you want them to like you. So they are giving you "advice" on how to be more appealing. Even if you aren't actually into them.