Are there gay guys who don't make being gay their entire fucking identity? is it because it makes you too hard to find otherwise? I hate this shit.
>>8499444
Well it kind of is a big part of your life. People always ask each other about their relationships or sex lives.
>>8499444
You are thinking about stupid crap you see on tv. Do you know gay people? They litterly never talk about it.
>tfw fags either make being a fag their entire fucking identity, or they make it their entire fucking identity NOT to make it their entire fucking identity
it's really not a big deal
>>8499444
I don't even know. I act "straight" and nobody knows until I say anything and then they're shocked. I've also been told I just have internalized homophobia for being so masculine and not talking about being gay every five seconds even though I have nothing against gem gays I'm just me. I hate idpol so much
>>8499465
>they literally never talk about it
what kinda fags have you met anon?
>>8500853
The kinds that don't police other's sexuality based on their adherence to stereotypes or insistence of there being a hierarchy among gay guys
>when you try not to make it your entire identity but then straight people do it for you
In a strange way I get flamers because acting straight is pretty much redundant when everyone thinks of you as "the gay guy" anyways.
Yes. I'm a guy who likes guys. On the other hand, I am also many other things. When I introduce myself, I introduce myself as a topologist.
>>8499444
Straight people shove their straight shit in our face all the fucking time
Sexuality is a big part of everyone's life. You just don't see straight people doing it all the time because you've been told it's normal and expected