If you are bisexual, but you prefer only guys then are you

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>>8491630
Most bisexuals prefer one gender over another. It's not always a 50/50 thing. So yes you still are bisexual.

>>8491651
so even if I do not see myself with a girl then I am still bisexual?

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>>8491765
Do you feel any kind of attraction to females? Can you not see yourself in any kind of romantic situation with a female. If you only have an attraction to males then you are gay. Unless you're talking about only seeing yourself spending the rest of your life with a male, then I guess you can still be bisexual.

>>8491870
I feel sexual attraction, but at the same time I do not feel the necessity to act upon it, and I do not see myself in any relationship with a girl. (but I like lesbian porn ( thus I am sexual attracted to girls)))

>>8491630
>If you are bixexual..
>..are you gay..?

idiot

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>>8491940
You may just be gay then.

>>8491630
The answer is you're neither. You're just smart. You're right.

Most bi dudes know deep down in their heard that another guy could love them more purely and truly than a woman ever would. Women can treat men like trash these days, and hardly seem able to appreciate the beauty in their boyfriends.

Gay dudes can see into the core of who you are for men and truly appreciate the good that is there and love it, and bis subconsciously know that.

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>>8492266
>>8492294

But this is the problem with labels because I am bi cause I like lesbian erotica.I could even sleep with a woman, but I do not want to because I want to sleep with guys.
So if I say I am gay then people will think that I am disgusted by women, and unable to enjoy lesbian erotica, but If I say bi then they will think that I want to be with a girl.

>>8492351
That's just how society will see it I'm afraid. If your bi, then your obviously making the point that your able to have a heterosexual relationship, which is the norm. You might as well say your gay if you prefer men that much.

>>8492351
You can just say you're bi, and quickly clarify by saying that you prefer guys. I'm the same way.

>>8491630
>If you are bisexual


You literally asked this question:

>If you are bisexual, are you bisexual?


Now think about how stupid you are.

>>8492294
THIS
ALL MY YES.

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>>8492832
this.

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>>8493102

Have you ever heard the phrase by straight people "I can get turn on by gay porn and even guys, but I would never be happy in a homosexual relationship; therefore, I am straight"
And this is a good questiom, are sexual orientations (labels) supposed to represent "I would be happy in this sexual relationship" or does it represent "I am physically able to have sex with this gender"?

>>8491630
>>8492351
Sounds like you are bornsexual.

>>8494335
Neither, your orientation is who you are attracted to and can get off to the thought of, even if you wouldn't have a relationship with them or physically enjoy sex with them.

>>8494352
So I can call myself Gay even if I can physically enjoy sex with girls and I wouldn't have a relationship with guys? But I am attracted to guys and I can get off to the thought of sex with guys. however, what happens if I can get off to the thought of lesbian porn, but not sex with girls?

>>8492351
What you like in porn doesn't define your personal sexuality. I'm lesbian, but I like gay porn and draw it for fun, but I'm still lesbian cause I don't feel a personal attraction towards men in real life.

>>8491630

This is pretty much my situation. I appreciate women and would love to be in a relationship with a perfect girl, but dating them is so much effort.

Meanwhile men are fun, kinky and a thousand times more loyal.

The label I stuck with is "technically bi, gay by choice"

>>8494432
You a lsebo tranno anon

>>8494432
>however, what happens if I can get off to the thought of lesbian porn, but not sex with girls?
Why can you get off the the former but not the latter?

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>>8494442
but look, since you watch gay porn as lesbian
and I watch lesbian porn as gay
doesn't it mean that we have some attraction to opposite gender since we are able to watch it for fun; thus, we should call ourselves bi?

This is the reason in my opinion why labels suck ass. It is just easier in my opinion to say "I lay with men as men lay with women, and I watch lesbian erotica as teenage boys watch lesbian erotica"
After this, everyone has better Idea who I am, and they can choose how to label me. instead of this I am bi but I do not feel personal/deep attraction towards girls or I am gay but I like lesbian erotica.

I just stopped caring labels really. Like, just over them man. People ask me what I am I just sorta say "whatever the hell you want me to be."

>>8494527
then you wink, slap them on the ass, throw your sunglasses back on and walk away

>>8494442
Why are gay men so appealing to you?

Why don't you feel a personal attraction to men irl?

>>8494527
Yea, I agree I have find out if I let people label me then everyone is happy. For example my parents say that I am straight, but just confused. my friends call me gay who wanna be straight, and bisexuals call me gay by choice.

>>8492294
>>8493464
Sometimes I forgot how dumb people can be, thanks for reminding me

>>8494432
>however, what happens if I can get off to the thought of lesbian porn, but not sex with girls?

To me, that means you're just gay.

I consider myself bi because I find myself desiring sex and relationships with both sexes. I think that's the point of labeling our sexuality.

The water gets murky with those who are bi, but only desire relationships with one sex either by orientation (aka terms like "homoromantic bisexual") or prejudice (e.g. "I can't have babies with a man", "women are too clingy"). Or don't act on their gay feelings due to homophobia, etc.

Do you feel in the back of your mind that some day you will desire a woman for sex/relationships? Do you see women and fantasize about them romantically or sexually? That would be the only reason to ID as bi IMO.

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>>8497360
>Do you feel in the back of your mind that some day you will desire a woman for sex/relationships? Do you see women and fantasize about them romantically or sexually?

not really, but I know back in my mind that it would be possible for me to physically have sex with a woman. I do not think that many or even any gays are able to do it.

>>8497762

Would you almost consider yourself a Kinsey 1?

Does ID'ing as gay feel dishonest to you? Or does it not feel "right"? You could always be like "I'm gay" and for those who you're close with, include, "although probably technically a kinsey 1 or like 0.5".

Kind of like with me, I say "I'm bi" to most but to those I'm close with "although I'm sure pan is just as fine a label, since I do tend to like people of tons of gender presentations".

In times less accepting, there were plenty of gay men in straight marriages, so I don't think "gays aren't able" is necessarily true, and I don't think being in a marriage with a woman made them any less gay. Same with lesbians who married men before coming out.

>>8497762
>I do not think that many or even any gays are able to do it.

Oh please.
Gays have sex with women all the time.
Many of them are married.
It isn't that difficult.
A hole is a hole.
Only the superfemme bottoms are scared of a little fish.

Gay is a preference.
We prefer men.
It's not a phobia.
We're not afraid of women.

>if you are bisexual are you bisexual?


OP is literally retarded.

>porn isn't real I don't actually want x it's idealized and fake
>but the porn I watch is how I figure out my sexuality hurr durr

You can't have it both ways, goddamn people are retarded.
Stop watching porn for a month or two and see what you naturally fantasize about if you're so confused.

>>8492351
>I could even sleep with a woman, but I do not want to
how do you know you could do it?