Has anyone here had a strong and enduring crush on someone they were not sexually attracted to?
Yes, 2 people. But I think I'm asexual.
>>8485783
It's kind of sad that people don't put much stock in romantic attraction. In this way, I can see why a lot of trans girls don't want to come out as trans to their partners right away.
Does it count if I had a stong enduring crush for a large part of the crush with almost no sexual thoughts but now have those?
>>8485840
really? what happened?
>>8485763
Yep. We're married now. I kind of think of it like 'platonic soulmates'
>>8486495
I think it was a me thing more than a her thing.
I met a girl that really brought it out in me, I typically don't fantasize. Just hand holding and kissing
>>8485763
Yes. Turns out I'm gay.
>>8486588
and you had a hetero crush?
I'm romantically attracted to transgirls, but I think dicks are gross
>>8486978
Are you m or f? Curious
>>8486978
good for you!
Yes I was in love with girls multiple times, each time lasted over two years, and the funny thing is I never thought of them sexually
now I'm 29 and I think I'm gay but definitely heteroromantic
I dont know what the FUCK is going on