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Alright, guys. I'm pissed off and feel like I need to vent,

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Alright, guys. I'm pissed off and feel like I need to vent, so would you mind answering a few questions?

I'm a young guy with an "unusual" plethora of sexual predilections. However, for the purpose of brevity, lets just say I THINK I'm bisexual. I haven't confided this with anyone, except maybe with my mom when I was like 14 but I dismissed these claims when I was older; claiming it was a phase.

However, I recently heard about NoFap & learnt about the discourse surrounding the conditioning effects of pornography & whatnot. This caused me to seriously doubt the, for lack of a better word, "authenticity" of these sexual thoughts I was & am currently experiencing, as the sexuality I currently THINK I have might differ from my "natural"sexuality, assuming there are no extraneous variables.

I did watch a fair amount of pornography in my early to late teens, & I could rationalize my desires (after all, my neuro-chemistry wouldn't have displayed an interest in said sexual content if it wasn't at least slightly predisposed towards it) but this malaise has been gnawing at me for a while & I have to ponder: am I feeling MY thoughts, or are these thoughts the result of intercession? Are sexual experiences, like watching porn, akin to narcotic use that have irreparable effects? If this conditioning is pronounced, then pornography is fucking terrifying & I want to revert back to my original basal sexuality as fast as possible.

Is this just self-loathing instilled by traditionalist doggerel or do other people have similar feelings surrounding this?
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There are MANY cases of young men developing autogynephilia as a result of the overconsumption of pornography. Bisexuality is sometimes an early stage of this.

Learn to cope with your feelings of inadequacy as a man and improve your masculinity before it's too late. Are you physically feminine? Highly emotional? Correct these traits immediately or suffer.
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A straight man will watch gay porn and feel only disgust. Whether you enjoy any particular imagery is dependent entirely on your deepest actual desires. Its a scapegoat to blame the porn itself. Might as well stop letting yourself be shamed and live authentically.
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>>8475109
Its far more likely that most humans tend to lean towards bisexuality, learn to hide it from themselves and others due to stigma, but then slowly realize it as they see porn depicting what they've always been into deep down.

A lack of masculinity is not a trait that should be "corrected" if doing so is even possible. You will only be happy by rejecting the shackles of culture and embracing who you are.
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>>8475090
I feel pretty much exactly like you.

It's been fucking up breddy gud. Dunno if I'll ever be able to have authentic feelings for someone that aren't overshadowed by my constant perversions.

As for the self-loathing part. Do you have suicidal thoughts? Because that would hit the nail on the foggin head regarding our similarity.
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>>8475109
>developing autogynephilia as a result of the overconsumption of pornography
[citation needed]
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>>8475148

are trannies really too self-focused to use google now?
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>>8475109
>Autogynephilia
Fuck, you got me.
& what's this about masculinity? This isn't an issue I really care about. Physically feminine? What do you mean? I guess i'm pretty thin (twink mode, as you fags like to call it), but I'm tall & hairy with short hair. Highly emotional? Y'know what, yeah. I've had mood swings since fucking forever: one moment I'm making jokes and socailising, the next I'm a fucking choleric asshole. But what the fuck does it matter? Can't masculine people be gay or bisexual with that masc-4-masc shit? Sure,
m/f temperament and sexuality are often related, but what do you mean about "improve your masculinity"?
>>8475147
>suicidal thoughts
Ehhh, not really; just confusion and a desire for clarity.
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>>8475157
>google your own terf screeds so i don't have to make one up myself
nah, kys
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>>8475148
Bro, I'm not looking up "autogynephilia" & "adolescents" in the same sentence on google. I ain't falling for that.
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>>8475204
>i'm not even going to try to pretend there's evidence for my fibs
of course you aren't. kys
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Sex without a connection will always be perverse.

Like, I could get off to the weirdest shit. Now I've got a boyfriend and what we do is just so... different? He's not my first partner, but definitely the first I feel connected to. Which means sex suddenly is this bond you share with a PERSON, not just a physical thing or a fantasy. Whole different thing. Can still be very kinky, of course, but it will feel more solid and 'yours'. Whereas porn just feels, meh, like a charade.

So I don't think porn is damaging.

Just focus on your personal growth and self-reflection, trying to be a kinder, better human, etc. You'll eventually run into a partner you can connect to and you'll see you have been worrying about nothing.

You'll be fine.
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>>8475170

>someone said something that hurt my feewies so I'm going to call them a terf

lol stay mad
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>>8475293
That's what you were talking about those. Those are the only people who share your view.

Maybe that's why you refused to cite them, because you didn't like what revealing that would show.
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