>be straight >gf is preop trans >penis still works >rarely

>>8473504

>not setting ground rules one day one

You done fucked up. I always tell my partners they can have a handy or anal because I hate giving oral. If they don't like it then fuck off.

>>8473504
I'm only going to give you that answer that your gf is probably a liar somewhere along the line desu, I'm pre-everything and I have 0 desire to use my penis so maybe she's faking taking hormones or something?

>>8473522
Some AGPs aren't so bothered as that.

>>8473522

She's pretty passable but her tits are fake. I don't know if she stopped taking them or not. Her dick always worked but it wasn't until recently that she's obsessed with getting off

I take hormones and I still get hard, if that's what you mean by works.

I don't have any real desire to get off from it though and I don't ejaculate anything.

She sounds like doesn't have as much genital dysohoria as I do.

Just need to set ground rules about what you find acceptable and work from there.

>>8473504

You are enabling someone else's mental illness (likely narcissistic, histrionic, borderline, or antisocial personality disorder - or a combination of all four).

You are putting yourself in a position of being coerced into sex you are uncomfortable with by a man who demands constant unwarranted sexual attention, "objectification", and praise.

If you are gay I urge you to seek out a non-abusive male partner with less mental issues than your current male partner.

Please note that anybody who responds to this post calling me "oppressive" is either mentally ill themselves or is the enabler of someone with extreme mental illness and AGP.

>>8473543
What age did she come out? Is she attracted to girls?

How boyish/girly would you say her personality is?

>>8473564
>if I pretend to talk smart it means my post is right!

Okay bud

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>>8473564
*yawn* nice bait, fag

>>8473504
Sounds like she stopped taking her 'mones.
Send her my way.
I love tranny cock up my ass.

>>8473566

She transitioned at 16 or 17 - I don't remember when exactly.

She looks at girls and her ex was another transwoman.

She's fem but is very bossy and demanding. Curses like a sailor and watches the NFL and other sports religiously

>>8473504
Idk I dated a straight girl, I'm not sure what gender you are, and uhm just finding ways to do things was important I guess, sucking on my breasts, hitachi vibe while she went at my body. Etc

>>8473504
>chaser fantasy

its ok, write more

>>8473584
>She's fem
In what ways?

What's the relationship like outside the sex?

>>8473504
go toy shopping - get her a butt plug (maybe get one yourself). they really increase sensitivity, so anal will feel a lot better for her. also get a hitachi so u can use it on her girlpenis if u don't want to touch it.

>>8473504
Your GF is being abusive if she expects you to be into her dick as a straight man. (Though if we are to be honest she is probably not real)

>>8473602
>butt plug they really increase sensitivity
huh in what way? not op, asking for myslef
I want to get off from penetration and no desire to fuck anyone, any other advice appreciated

>>8473613
:o go get urself a plug anon! i have a medium njoy and it's pretty fucking great. they help get the sphincters used to being open and tease ur prostate (assuming you have one). when you first start butt stuff, your butt has to learn how to interpret the sensations, and butt plugs are perfect for helping it figure that out.

This may come as a complete shock to you, OP, but you're not dating an actual girl.

It's a dude that you're calling "my girlfriend". get with the program, go full homo, or ditch this guy for someone with an actual vagina if that's what you are after

>>8473676
What's triggered you? Your own latent homosexuality? Envy of guys who can get mtfs while you're stuck with cis girls or more likely nothing? Or are you perhaps a jealous roastie yourself?

>>8473648
Im already used to buttplay but I have hard time getting off, sometimes it feels amazing but other times its like I cant find p spot.
I tried fairly fat conic plug and it was uncomfy to wear.

>>8473682

This person has gone so far down the rabbit hole that they are unable to see the shear lack of reality in their post

>>8473568

>I believe that I am a woman yet I am a male

lol

>>8473701
Guessing the middle one, envy at someone else not being alone.

>>8473708

This. You live in a constant state of mental distress because no matter how hard you try you can't quite convince yourself that you're a "real" woman because - SPOILER ALERT - you're not!

>>8473713

I don't date people with severe mental illness. So are you a special sparkle tranny or a shining whiteknight enabler?

>>8473682
>Envy of guys who can get mtfs while you're stuck with cis girls

Anyone can get an mtf.
You just pay them.
That's no secret.

>>8473727

Paying them is a waste of resources. All you have to do is pretend to believe that their testicles and hairy assholes are "feminine" and they'll suck your dick all night long.

It's all about feigning that you're buying into their delusional fantasies.

>>8473682

>a real woman being jealous of a man who spends all his time obsessing over trying to be like women

honestly the level of denial and sour grapes in this post is nearly unfathomable

>>8473751
Oh, so they were right. lol.

>>8473741
virgin detected
if they have hairy assholes then they are drag queens, not trans.

>>8473504
straight guys don't suck dicks

>>8473762

LMAO this needs to be featured in the next DSM

>>8473759

I bet you wear fingerless gloves. lol.

>>8473689
go for smallish, with a thicker body and thinner stem.

>>8473819
>>8473689
https://www.mr-s-leather.com/world-s-most-comfortable-butt-plug-wmcbp/

>>8473504
>1. Any recommendations on how to get her to cum from anal so she doesn't need anything else to get off?
play with her dick while you are doing her? Maybe try some toys.

>2. How the hell is her dick still working while on hormones? Is there a way to shrink them or her desire to get off?
Ive been on hormones for like a year and half straight and mine still works. Its frankly kind of annoying especially since I have no intentions of using it on anyone. I would imagine cypro would make her peen not work. I haven't tried it because I dont want to have to deal with the side effect profile but maybe she can handle it? You just have to order it online.

>3. If, and a big if, I agree to anal how do I prepare. Literally nothing has been in my butt.

Oil or silicon base lube and a water based lube at the same time will make things extra slick. Also, relaxing. Maybe smoke some weed or get a little tipsy.

Beyond that tough, You need to tell her that anal is a hard limit for you. You made the mistake of caving in the last time and now she believes that shit will work when she wants to do something. What she did was shitty but you enabled her to do what she did by folding. Sit her down, explain to her that you arent going to budge on this but you are willing to explore other things to get her off (which you should be) because you love her but no amount of crying is going to make this happen. Then negotiate with her about what you are willing to do because you would have had this conversation a while ago. If she still wants to pound your ass, you are going to have to ask yourself if this relationship is worth price you are being asked to pay and you need to be truthful with yourself because if its not then you need to dump this woman asap.

>>8473584
>She's fem but is very bossy and demanding. Curses like a sailor and watches the NFL and other sports religiously

Jesus. She sounds like she might be a girl from my hometown.

>>8473727
>>8473676
>>8473564
>>8473751
Why do you people try so hard but only do shitty attempts at trolling?

>>8473888
seems like a great design, too bad I cant afford it

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>>8473504
>be a straight guy
>someone starts throwing shit at you
>you suck their dick
BTFO

>>8473504
>now she's giving me the silent treatment
Emotional manipulation followed by using shit like "You don't love me" as a means of manipulating you into what she wants.

These are signs of spouse abuse, research it more and see if they're doing more shit like emotional gas lighting. Confront them about it, if she really loves you she'll get help.

>>8473504
Congratulations, you let another man coerce you into sucking their dick.

>>8473585
>hitachi vibe while she went at my body. Etc
tell me more about this, I need to try it for myself.
>dated a straight girl
you're mtf? how did you manage that?

>>8473648
>>8473613
>>8473602
so....what I just put the plug in my butt and just wear it around?
how long/often should I put it in there?

>>8473504
>2. How the hell is her dick still working while on hormones? Is there a way to shrink them or her desire to get off?

I still get erections and I've been on hormones for 3 years. And my sex drive fluctuates. Hormones won't necessarily kill your desire to orgasm or have sex. When she cums is it clear or white? If it's clear then at the very least her testosterone is low. If it's white then she's not taking her hormones. That being said, I don't think the desire to top is connected to your hormone levels at all.

>>8473504
The answer here is chastity, you can totally get a transgirl into chastity really quickly. It lines up with a common sort of mindset we have, call it the truth behind a stereotype. Anyway OP you get her into chastity and not only will you not have to finish her off, she'll thank you for it later.

>>8473504
you literally have the dream girlfriend and you're complaining about it
wants you to suck her dick
wants to fuck you in the ass
I'm so jealous

>"be straight"
>"give a blowjob to another man"

Got bad news for you OP

>>8477271
To be fair, he never said he enjoyed it.

>>8477250
This.
Everyone in this thread is making me feel like a piece of shit. I'm pretty much exactly like OPs girlfriend and my boyfriend refuses to let me top as well.
I honestly don't get it and lots of other guys would be happy if their trans girlfriend wanted to top. To me he just seems selfish,
At least he doesn't mind sucking my dick, but I'm still thinking about leaving him.

>>8473564 is right btw

>>8477878
>letting a transgirl top you without a chastity cage and strapon
>ISHYGDDT.jpg.png.tiff

>>8473504
Sounds like you should just date a real woman my dude.

>>8477878
Why do you want to top?

>>8478048
I have a dick and it feels good. I like big juicy man butt and my bf has one. I didn't really care too much about topping when we started dating, but the longer we've been together the stronger got the urge.

>manages to get one of the few transgirls who like to top
>squanders her
Give her to me fgt.

tfw bf wants me to top him but my tranny dick cant stay hard

;_;

>>8477878
I thought transgirls didn't like weenie chasers. Times change fast

>>8478587
WPATH standards are loosening throughout the world, so trans people don't need to completely and rigidly fit the standards of gender identity disorder like they had to in the past. Non-ops are no longer excluded (they did get hormones in Benjamin's era though, as did children)

>>8478587
There's nothing wrong with guys who are attracted to trans girls. Imo chasers are guys that are only interested in trans girls for sex and view them as objects to be used rather than human beings.

>>8478665


also a lot of chasers are on the lower scale of men.

if chasers were 5-10 then we wouldnt be complaining

>>8477286

right, so he's being coerced by a tranny is what you're saying

this is why trannies shouldn't be allowed in any public washrooms, male or female

>>8477878

WAAH ALL I DID WAS COERCE MY BOYFRIEND INTO ANAL SEX EVERYBODY HERE IS MAKING ME FEEL BAD FOR BEING ABUSIVE???? WAAAH???? WHY DO I FEEL GUILT FOR ACTING LIKE A RAPIST???? SOMEONE COME CODDLE ME :::(((

>>8478580

Been on hrt 2 years and my dick still works. Wtf am I doing wrong?

>>8477878
Find a different boyfriend then.

>>8478665

Actually the opposite is true. Males who want to be viewed as female spend a great deal of time objectifying themselves. They are jealous of the sexual attention real females get in pornography and they enjoy being degraded. This is evident in the pornography they consume such as "sissification" as well as the lifestyles they lead.

Males who wish they were female are not victims. They gain sexual gratification from pretending to be victims. The men who enter relationships with these "wannabe female" males are enabling their mental illness, perhaps for sexual gratification but certainly not without the willingness of the "trans" partner

>>8478724
How is it abusive? If I let him fuck me the least he can do is let me top him every now and then too, it's only fair.

>>8478697
>if chasers were 8-10 then we wouldnt be complaining
FTFY

>>8478736
There are a lot of scams around RX drugs sold on the internet since there isn't much oversight.
Perhaps you've been buying sugar pills labelled as hormones?

>>8478763
I'm planning on it, already started using tinder and okcupid again.

>>8478780
Don't be a monkeybrancher. Just tell your boyfriend your grievances and if they cannot be resolved then move on.

>>8478780
I love how people start looking for a new boyfriend before they've broken up with the last one!
Do they really think that a rebound is going to be a good partner?

Maybe be single for a while and try to figure out why your relationships aren't working for you.

>>8478736
I've been on e for a year and a half and mine still works plenty. Do you get phantom vagina? Maybe the two are connected? Either way, you shouldn't expect it to shrink and stop working.

>>8478774
What about if it still works but you've been going through a pharmacy? I mean, I still have breasts and skin/bo/fat/body hair changes but my dick hasn't shrunk even a centimeter.

>>8473564
I know this is bait, but Anon is kinda right in way.

It's really not ok for her to make you do things you aren't comfortable with. If she really loved you, she'd respect your boundaries

It seems a little rapey desu

>>8473504
>be straight
>gf is preop trans
lmao

>>8473504
Dude you're living r9ks dream let her breed you!

ok ill pretend this isnt a bait post, tell her no and that a real woman wouldn't want to do that.

>>8477878 >>8478137

stop roleplaying, stupid chaser

>>8473504
>dating a crazy person

>>8479526
Is it really roleplaying, or just future transbian activities?

>>8478580
>>8478736
its luck of the draw.
i'm 3.5 years HRT and mine works, but from about a year~2.5 years it didn't work.
i think its random

>>8473564
Bait af but still kind of right when he says she shouldn't coerce you into do things you don't want to. That's almost like rape. That is NOT what a person do to a love partner.

>>8473504
>Screams and cries because she can't fuck your ass, even though you'll fuck hers, get her off with your hand, and give her blowjobs
You sure you're not dating a child?

This is not how a sane adult acts. This is how an entitled brat acts, one who knows she'll get whatever (and I mean whatever) she wants if she throws a tantrum.

Don't blame her though. This is your fault. You saw these sides of her personality and thought "Yeah, I'm okay with this." Essentially, you let her be this way. You should never have to fight or prove yourself to keep your partner. Having a partner should make life easier.

Keep your own ideals and standards in mind at all times. Modify them if you have to, learn from experiences, and be realistic, but always remember: There's lots of people out there, you should be trying to find one who's good for you. You might be able to "suck it up" and deal with an abusive/shitty partner for a long time, but one day, when it's much too late, it will be too much to bear and you'll have a mid-life crisis.

>>8477878
>>8478766
>>8478780
You are disgusting.

1. If "lots of guys would be happy", then you are with the wrong guy.

2. He's not selfish, YOU are. You are borderline abusive/rapist if you are coercing him by emotional blackmail into doing something he doesn't want to.

3. No, it's NOT fair to let you fuck him only because he fucks you. Same way a cis girl doesn't need to do anal just because his boyfriend likes when she fingers his ass.

4. Break up with him BEFORE starting to use Tinder and OkCupid. You seem to be with him just because you have no other options, which is fucking dishonest. You are not in love with him anymore.

>>8473504
It sounds like it's kind of more like she feels there's an unequal distribution of orgasms? Maybe get her a good fleshlight and a vibe or something if you're not comfortable blowing her.

>wants anal and fights about it
Yo if that's a hard limit for you, tell her no. You don't owe her that, and 'if you really loved me you'd let me-" is a crap argument. If you want to explore anal stuff on your own time that's one thing, but her making you rush into it is pretty fucking shitty.
Hormones are a crapshoot though, there's no garauntees how they make anything work, much less penises.

>>8473504
How about trying sounding? Sounds like a natural solution, a way to give her penis attention while keeping it all about things being inserted into her.

Also, how about trying giving her a footjob as foreplay? Bit of a problem there, since you can't just find gloves for that or any sort of latex/leather socks, but still, some sort of special material for wrapping your feet might make it better.

>>8477878
OP's girlfriend is going about it pretty shittily though. If you want to try something new, fucking start slow mode on that shit, and if they say no to something, respect that.
If it were me I'd try fingering while blowing him, but I mean, if that's not their thing... it's not their thing.

If it means you can't be with them, so be it, that's how things go sometimes. But damn girl, don't be a dick about the giving and taking of dick.

>>8477878
Yeah, I don't feel sorry for you, cause I'm sure that you or anyone like you would never have topped me.

Or ever considered a relationship with me.

Despite intense suspicion that I used to be quite pretty.

But even so, despite not having stuff in common with guys around me, I've been developing a quite solid understanding and appreciation of stuff that naturally is disorienting and erasive to them, maybe I'm even starting to becoming capable of making use of that.

@8473504
>low tier b8
>89 replies
gg

>>8482640
Why would I break up with him when he's paying all my bills, feeds me and puts a roof over my head? That would be plain retarded. I'll break up with him as soon as I find someone else willing to do that.

>>8483839
You're trash.

>>8483839
Kill yourself.

>>8473504
you are in an abusive relationship with someone who is clearly unstable.

have some self respect and dump them. it'll be better for both of you in the long run.

>>8482583
this op

>>8483839
Wow, you're worse than I imagined.

>>8482607
>You sure you're not dating a child?
probably has bpd

bpd ppl are children desu

t. bpd "person"

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>>8473504
>straight
>putting a penis in your mouth
lol

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>>8473504
>3. If, and a big if, I agree to anal how do I prepare. Literally nothing has been in my butt.

Man up, faggot, develop your assertiveness, a no is a no.

But maybe it's already too late for you:

>she then wanted blowjobs
>give in

Your girlfriend is the real man of this relationship. I wouldn't be surprised if she dumps you after fucking your beta asshole. After all, there won't be any new hole of her "straight" male fucktoy to exploit.

t. straight male

>>8473504
Your girlfriend is not really trans if she wants a man to suck off her dick and wants to fuck you in the ass. That's some faggoty gay shit.

>>8483839
Fuck you you sociopathic asshole.

>>8473504

>inb4 your gf isn't on hormones, isn't tran and is in fact a big bear gay man who is in it for the long game to get some straight boy bum

Sorry OP you got played, now you're gay.

>she then wanted blowjobs
>n..no thanks
fucking sitcom right here

>>8473504
This is not something that happens in a healthy relationship. Don't let this person manipulate you into doing something you don't want to do. I hope this helps.