anyone else here at the stage where they acknowledge that homosexuality is an act you indulge in and not really an orientation and by extension of that a choice? one that has roots in psychological imprinting from childhood or other development periods.
>>8472881
This is bullshit. Homosexuality is factually biological. Sage and move on.
>>8472883
where is the hard proof of this?
Certainly, things besides DNA can shape your sexual orientation, and in some people's cases it's much more flexible and changeable into adulthood than in others. At the same time, you don't just choose who to be attracted to. I'm bi, and as such, attracted to both men and women. For the past few years I've only dated women because I live in a pretty conservative area and don't want that headache, but I still find both men and women attractive.
Now, "orientation" may not be the best way to look at it, since it creates discrete categories and probably contributes to bi erasure as well as making people who mostly have sex with people of one gender unwilling to step outside that because it would violate their understanding of themselves as fitting neatly into a category.
But none of that means that you can just choose (not) to like men or women.
>>8473003
>But none of that means that you can just choose (not) to like men or women.
I don't think it's like that but you can choose not to reinforce the attraction and effectively "become" indistinguishably straight.
>>8473029
>I don't think it's like that but you can choose not to reinforce the attraction and effectively "become" indistinguishably straight.
Nah. You'll always be that fag with a beard, that fag who's delusional.
>>8473029
I'm in the opposite boat. I use to be pretty much 50/50 bi, but I'm slowly losing all attraction to women. Gays use to tell me that bi wasn't a thing and that i was just confused. Either they were right or sexuality is actually fluid and changes.
>>8473029
Repressing typically leads to misery and dissatisfaction. So yeah you can not "indulge" your urges but that's not gonna help anyone
>>8472881
I don't care what homosexuality is, I'm gay and I want other women to ride my face.
>>8472881
Nah sorry I'm not a faggot
>>8472881
>an act you indulge in
Congratulations, you're retarded