Anyone elses biggest fear of transitioning ending up not passing?

just do it senpai, worst case scenario you're on titty skittles but don't present girl

>>8460161
Yep, offing myself if I can't pull it off.

>>8460174
This is unfortunately my plan as well most likely.
Am almost certain I'll probably crack and kill myself within the next year anyways

>>8460174
>>8460234
I plan on giving it 3 years. I'm 24 so my chances aren't great and I figure if I am going to end up passing it will be within 3 years. Not to mention if I kill myself at 27 I will at least be part of the 27 club.

>>8460260
me too, started at 24. 26 now, tick tock.

>>8460286
How's it going for you? Are you close to passing? Do you feel better?

>>8460260
>>8460286
Why does everyone seem to be starting at 24? I'm also 24 and starting soon.

>>8460234
>>8460260
Yep, the thought does scare me, but there truly is no point in living if I don't ultimately reach my goal.

...Unless there was some way I could completely isolate myself from every cis and passing trans girl in the world.

I'm really happy for the non-passing trans women that find happiness. That won't ever work for me though.

>>8460458
It's the natural age where repressors realize they can't fight it any longer. See >>8450926

I'm about to transition and think I'll pass.

But if I don't, I will kill myself rather than be a hon.

>>8460502
Makes sense I suppose. I was thinking it's the age where you either do it now or never because if you wait much longer you're almost guaranteed to never pass.

>>8460161
I think I will probably pass since 4chan told me I had a decent chance, but I don't know maybe it was just a good angle in the one picture I uploaded or something.

Doctors and therapists and such have said not to worry about reaching the ideal, nobody can be perfect, and whatever other lines like that. It's not about perfection though, it's about mediocrity, it's not about people noticing how cute I am, it's about people not noticing me.

>>8460161
Safer to just not transition!

>>8460669
Yeah and kill myself. Don't have to worry about passing if you're dead!

>>8460295
it's...ok. idk. i feel less hopeless than i used to but i don't pass. height likely does not help at all.
i managed to get a job after i started though so i'll give it until ffs to decide whether or not to an hero

>>8460737
I hope everything works out for you anon. Good luck.

>>8460161
You're not the only one. I'm stuck in this weird place where sometimes I'm happy who I am now and sometimes I wish I was someone else. Transitioning is such a huge step and I'm scared to fuck up my life. Also I have no idea if I could ever pass... I've seen amazing transitions though... Is 21 too late?

>>8460776
hoo boy. Either start now or wish you had started now every consecutive year from now.