why older gays seem straight? like 40 and over. I've worked

Because by that age, the only people who are still saying they're gay are legitimately gay and not just jumping on an identity for attention.

>>8449335
Older gay here.
Because we got our jaws broken if we acted the least bit feminine, so we had to act masculine from day one or get killed, basically.
Also, if you act feminine you don't get laid.

>>8449335
testosterone goes down in all men, regardless of sexuality, so all men past a certain point act kinda gay and we just see it as normal for all of them.

>>8449986
>testosterone goes down in all men
tell that to the bald guys with hairy backs who are constantly horny

it doesn't actually start going down until they are in their 70s and even then it only goes down a little.
low test is a meme by the jews to sell testosterone therapy

>>8449335
A lot of the femmeness is suppressed and after 30-40 a lot of twinks and queens stop fighting aging and just Dad out.

Some never do though

Because by that age, it's not important anymore to be recognized as gay. Your local gay community already knows you and coming out to people outside of that when you want isn't hard.

>>8450096
Also in general the gay community has spit on them for being old, especially if they aren't exorbitantly wealthy. So they stop trying to fit in w/ a community that cherishes youth above all.

I wanna date an older gay

>>8449978
Anybody who had to live through the '80s and earlier learned how to hide.