A question to my fellow CIS homosexuals. How do you conceptualize masculinity and femininity? Do you see yourself as represented mostly by one or by both? Do you want your partner to be alligned the same as you or the opposite?
Do you conceptualize masculinity/effeminate in relationship to hetrosexuals? For example thinking that heterosexual men are masculine while homosexual men are feminine?
>>8444442
Whoever has the time to go through all these labels and scales needs to get a life or a job
>>8444442
it's a spook
I'm boring but not bored enough to spend my time figuring out a bunch of dumb labels for myself that no one should ever give a shit about.
I'm fully convinced that you have to have some form of autism or similar mental problem like OCD or something to want to obsess about yourself this much. It's all way too similar to how autistic people obsess about cartoons and shit and make up a bunch of fan fiction. It's like gender fan fiction and its worthless in real life.
>>8444583
fpbp
>>8444442
I stopped caring and now I do whatever feels right.
>>8444814
Well masculinity and femininity are going to exist whether you think about them or not. The only choice you have is whether you are conceptualizing them conscious or unconsciously.
Literally, LITERALLY social constructs
>>8444583
t. dumb bitch who can't keep up
can you fuck off back to plebbit?
>>8445303
What's your point? All abstract ideas are so social constructs including construction, society, abstrion and ideas.
Why are people hostile to the idea that masculinity and feminity exists? Sounds like something a resentiful loser would think of. You feel bad because you can't fit in with either category so you just become angry knowing they exist and want to tear it down. It's a type of jealousy for people who are secure in their identity.
>>8444583
fpbp
>How do you conceptualize masculinity and femininity?
The old biological sexual dimorphism that evolved along with gender roles for the sake of smooth reproduction that guided the development of humanity, and the rapidly warping vestiges thereof.
>Do you see yourself as represented mostly by one or by both?
Both. I'm indulging my feminine side heavily and I love it.
>Do you want your partner to be alligned(sic) the same as you or the opposite?
I'm bi and love to play to my partner's desires. I want my guys with mixed masc/fem features. Girls with psychologically "male"ish personalities would be interesting.