Why do the trans women who've had PIV sex prior to transitioning

>>8439461
I've never had PIV sex and I never could imagine being able to actually do it. Does this mean I'm trutrans?

>>8439461
Because if you agree to it its NOT SEXUAL ASSAULT

>>8439491
>forced

>>8439461
It took me six months to warm up to the idea of sex with my GF when I was repressing.

Once we got started, all I wanted to do was lay her down and kiss her whole body, I tried eating her out and fingering her, but the moment she tried to kiss my neck, or touch my junk, I had to stop. The idea of someone liking my gross body for what it was was so damn disgusting to me

>>8439967
>The idea of someone liking my gross body for what it was was so damn disgusting to me

Hmm. I never considered this but I feel the same way.

>>8439461
I think a lot of the time they mean forced as in someone pressuring you and being too much of a pussy to decline even though you don't want it, not someone hopping on your dick with obvious lack of consent


I had similar sexes as a cis female and I don't consider it a sexual assault despite being uncomfortable because seriously if I don't tell you how the fuck are you supposed to know I don't want to fuck? Especially when I act equally shy when I actually want to. If someone did the same to me and called it a sexual assault I would be really hurt and pissed and I have enough empathy to realize it and not go that way (plus it's a slap in the face to actual rape victims for who the experience is much more traumatic)
But consent being present doesn't change the fact that I didn't want it or enjoy it and the whole thing felt overall bad and wouldn't be something I would do if it was exclusively about my own sexual gratification
There's more to sex than just rape and sex you want to have

That said some experiences I've read are indeed just regular rape but I guess if you're raised believing women can't rape men you're not gonna think you've been raped when someone put your dick in their vag no matter how you personally identify

But I don't claim it was forced, I liked it fine. I still have PIV after transitioning, too, but it tends to be more emotional and brings out vulnerability.