Does anyone else feel like they're not good looking enough

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>>8407221
I don't understand. Why do you have to be good looking to bottom? It's just preference.

What kind of people are you dating?

no one cares what you look like as long as you're willing to be fucked

>>8407221
I feel like I'm not masc enough to top

>>8407221
What do you mean by "not good looking enough"? Are you bulky? Fat? Hairy?
Just diet, shave your body and become a light, feminine twink boi and you should be good

>>8407343
Diet and hit the gym, my man. Worked to build up my confidence as top

>>8407352
Kys, we need more muscle bottoms

>>8407374
Twink bottoms = best bottoms

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op here

I have a fairly average body, had more or less zero compliments other than a few times (nice legs) and the person I lost my virginity too was very nice (statuesque, apparently)

In terms of weight, i'm pretty much a skinny-fat victim, thin everywhere but my torso, not huge, but sadly noticeable, to me anyway (I probably have body dysmorphia however, so I never really know who to believe) I'm hairy but not super hairy, I could easily shave if I want to. Maybe it's just me but I feel you have to have a nice body to bottom or be thin or have a nice ass or whatever idk, I guess i'm just too hung on stereotypes and certain images. I'm 5ft 5 and 57 kg/9 stone, so fairly light and BMI is a bit below normal. I want to lose another stone though.

I'd top if I could (have done before) but damn I just really dislike it, it's quite uncomfortable for me. I've always been more turned on at the idea of bottoming, and like playing with my butt, but never actually done it.

I'm not dating anyone at the moment, my self-esteem is too low but also there's like no gay people in my city. Sorry for ranting to you guys

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>>8407383
No

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>>8407405
EW!

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>>8407422
>not wanting to put that aroganrt fag in his place

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>>8407428
>wanting to put your dick between two rocks instead of two pillows

>>8407387
You sound like a pretty ideal bottom I'd have sex with. Most tops just don't like bottoms to either be too obese or too muscular.

Being skinny-fat isn't a huge deal breaker for most tops since it often means you have a nice butt

>>8407478
thanks, anon, it means a lot

Yeah I actually get a few compliments about my butt, so at least that's one thing. It's just my belly I hate, most people say it's not that noticeable (definitely not with clothing, most people think i'm just slim/thin) but it's one of those things that are glaringly obvious to me, you know? everyone has their flaws they obsess over, I suppose.

If I lost that (which I probably will, soonish) i'd be pretty happy, I think

>>8407352
Some of us are broad and bald so losing weight wont make us twinks.

>>8407488
Hell yea, go for it! Best way to slim down the belly is just going out for a jogg every other day and doing some sit-ups.
You'll be happy with your body in no time

If you're a bottom you only need to ensure that your body/ass looks good.

If you have a horrendous "mauled by a bear" face you could always do it doggy style.

>>8407488
Don't worry about your belly. I think you're just paying too much attention to it.

Go outside and look at how many fatties wear skin tight polos.

>>8407508
>>8407678

Thanks for nice words, friends, I will lose that final goal and fulfil my dream of having some confidence!

>tfw you have the body of a bottom but the mind of a top

When did god think this was a good idea?

>>8407970
Surely you could still top? At the least, power bottom, perhaps?

>>8407975
Of course I can still top! I'm a human being, ain't I?

The problem comes when you realize you will never be the muscledom of your fantasies. Cursed ectomorphy.

>>8407970
I feel you.

>Twink body
>Dominant bottom

However, the worst types are masculine manly men who "loves" to top, only to come begging after a month to be fucked.

>>8407508
I hate it when people make physical fitness and body transformation sound like a snap.

'in no time'.
No. Try 6+months and a not so interesting diet. It sucks and requires a lot of time, discipline and hard work.

>>8408007
I might be the only gay guy that fucking HATES buttstuff done to me. I don't know why, but it just feels horrible to me.
I'm lucky to be tall and kinda fit though, so I fit the top role pretty well.

>>8408022
Anon, OP said he weighs 57 kg. He isn't a obese guy trying to slim down, just a unfit guy trying to lose a bit of his belly.

And going for a small jogg every other day isn't hell on earth, my dude.

>>8408032
I love buttstuff but hates being told what to do or bossed around. But I've had my fair share of "strict tops that somehow turn submissive after some thinking".

>>8408044
Pretty much, i'm just unfit, but no way overweight anymore, in fact, if I lost more than 1 stone, i'd be underweight, so i'm closer to that then I am obese or whatever

It's almost like having a shitty lifestyle of no exercise, constant vidya, drugs and drinking (only 20, nothing serious) and bad diet leads to an unfit body

Be healthy guys, you'll look better and feel better in the long term, as well as live longer

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>>8408055
You can do it.

>>8408047
Believe you me, I've tried being the bottom on occasions for my ex-boyfriend and absolutely hated it. He basically had to go extremly slow, even with a shit ton of lube.
After a few tries we just agreed to me never being the bottom again.

>>8408055
Wish you the best of luck, my man!

>>8407221
>>8407343
>tfw feel too ugly to have sex in general
I'm not feminine enough to be a sub and not nearly masculine enough to be a desired top.
My thoughts are filled with self hate.

>>8409259
>tfw nice skinny otter mode body and cute face but shitty, thinning hair and high hairline

an attempt was made

>>8411046
hairplugs or shave it clean, mi amigo

>>8407221
Hey OP
(I'm >>8407478 , >>8407508 , >>8408044 & >>8408079 )
You sound cute, wanna chat on Discord some time? My decoy acc is AusChan30 #3866 (dont like posting my real one on here)
I'll give u my real one once I got ya on there :)

>>8414132
Sure thing, sounds good to me, just added :-) I don't go on a lot though but i'll be sure to reply, dw

>>8408032
Same here, nothing is getting in my hole. That's a 1 way street.

>>8407221
>tfw have smol dick and feel undesired as a top because of it
It hurts :(

I know that feel OP, this is basically my struggle. I've been dieting so far to lose the bellyfat, and doing everything i can to feel more like a qt twink.

>>8416338
I would absolutely let a smol dick top fuck me. Would be kinda hot in it's own way, my dick is bigger, but he's the one using his to fuck me~
There is hope for you anon!

>>8407508
sprinting is better for fat loss than jogging
>>8407488
some tummies are cute

>>8407374
Muscle is gross, top or bottom. Twink + twink = cute

>>8407508
O usually run two kilometer a day. Is that enough?

>>8417262
Oh you're good, don't worry