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I can't believe RLT (real-life test) is still a thing. RLT

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I can't believe RLT (real-life test) is still a thing.
RLT is borderline torture.
To get hormones, surgeries etc you are basically expected to go full-time even though you look like a linebacker in a dress so it's incredibly stressful, at least it is for an unattractive late transitioner twinkhon like me.

Whenever I go see my endo for more hormones I have to wear something that passes for female clothes and I swear to God everyone looks weird at me and probably secretly laughs at me thinking "haha look at that ugly lanky man in skinny jeans and girly top, what a fag!" Why are doctors so evil? I bet docs themselves probably share stories with each other that sound like "you won't guess what that ugly manfaced tranny who visited me today was wearing, lol"
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>>8364845
If you aren't willing to live as a woman and aren't willing to face the consequences of transition, why do you want hormones and surgeries?
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>>8364858
How can I live as a woman when I literally look like a man?
That makes no sense.
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>>8364858
Not OP but I'd rather die than let T destroy me even further.
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>>8364845
This what you get for making governmental approval mandatory to ingest substances

>>8364864
Clearly, you're not TruTrans™ :%)
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>>8364864
>How can I live as a woman when I literally look like a man?
Good question and until you answer it you should stop transitioning.
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>>8364869
most trannies are left-wing so maybe this is karma
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>>8364858
Do you not understand that living as a woman but having distinctive male features like long midface and dudechin will only make you a laughing stock to everyone around?
Why don't you go back to Susan's where you belong, hon?
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>>8364845
I live in a fuckingshithole for trans ppl and have to do the exact same , every time I go to my endo I want to kill myself
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>>8364845
what the fuck is wrong with cis people?
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do your doctors also prescribe spiro so you get really hairy?

doctors really care about us so much

^_^

my endo claimed to be ignorant of what bicalumatide is. IMO that's like a car mechanic not knowing what keyless entry is. noobs in their own field. disgusting.

i always make fun of my doctors for being cucked by the insurance industry. they know they are.
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>>8364888
lmao this

I just fucking hate that everyone not drinking the progressivist kool-aid has to try to convince a doctor they're doing so to get the FUCKING TREATMENT for an ACTUAL FUCKING MENTAL ILLNESS
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>>8364914
Not really. The simple answer is supporting the informed consent model. You still have to go to a doctor and get a prescription, but no gatekeeping crap, you just sign off that you know what you're getting yourself into.
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>>8364877
Why do you entitled men think you have any power over other people and go as far as to demand what I should or shouldn't do with my transitioning? Maybe instead of shamelessly bullying unpassable trans women on the internet you should do something more productive with your life?
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>>8364924
>you entitled men
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>>8364923
Right
but informed consent is the unicorn

good luck finding one, and then god knows how many visits (and $) it'll be before you can actually get the script
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>>8364877
Poor person: how can I enjoy life when I can't afford anything

You: good question,and until you have an answer for it you should quit going to work.
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>>8364858
There's a difference between being serious about transition and being asked to paint a mile-wide target on your back. It's like saying "well if you want to be a soldier why don't you want to walk through a literal minefield?".
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>>8364912
>do your doctors also prescribe spiro so you get really hairy?
What do you mean?
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>>8364845
Why don't you just self-med and just not do the whole RLE thing? If your endo gets mad just tell them you're self-medding and don't feel comfortable presenting as a girl without hormones. You might even get a normal prescription then.
There's RLE where I live as well, but only hons that are scared of ordering things off the internet actually go through with it.

Sometimes you can also get a prescription from your GP rather than your endo if the endo starts refusing to treat you. But if not just keep self-medding
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>>8364845
is it Germany-only thing?

and yeah its inhumane
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>>8364983
They do it all over Canada as well. But we also have informed consent, sort of. You just have to find a GP that's willing to do it since our informed consent isn't through any special clinics. If you're self-medding and tell your GP there's a good chance they'll just give you the prescription though.
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>>8364979
It costs too much and I couldn't afford it.
Also my endo doesn't know I am not full-time 24/7 because I am only presenting in girl mode to him so he's none the wiser.
This humiliation once in awhile beats not having hormones at all tbqh

It's funny how he hugboxes me lately "oh you look so feminine now, hun!" while deep down is probably laughing at me.
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>>8364845
>she didn't self med for a while before going to the doctor to complete the rle
you brought this on yourself
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>>8364845
Is this a real thing? My therapist has recommend me to a doctor for hrt, and I've yet to meet him. Am I going to have to present as a female to get in?? Lol fuck. I wasn't going to do anything till I lazered off this mustache shadow. Oh well, guess I'm fucked.
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>>8364869
>Not buying tit tacks with bitcoin and paying for surgeries with black market Monero.
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>>8364845
Iktf. That's why I dropped the idea of visiting shrinks all togheter and started self-medding instead.
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>>8364858
Susans detected!

Not everyone is willing to terrorize women and children in a horrible caricature like yours.

Anyone who isn't a fetishist or stupid wouldn't present until they pass, hon.
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>>8365083
It's real, but you avoided it since you already have your endo referral.
It's more common with older therapists and varies by country.
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>>8364845
They don't want your custom. They're actively telling you "don't come here". So, don't. And let anybody you feel would care know that they're a dick and should be avoided.
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>>8365083
It usually depends. A lot of therapists ask you to do stuff like come out to family and friends before they prescribe you anything. Whether or not you do RLE depends on where you live usually.

Where I live they have RLE as a requirement but I self-medded so they sent me to an endo and I don't go to any therapists. My GP also does therapy, just not specifically gender stuff, so it's good enough for me. I don't think I'd like regular therapy, it would feel like I'm being blackmailed into therapy just to get drugs lmao
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>>8365506
>A lot of therapists ask you to do stuff like come out to family and friends before they prescribe you anything
That's true, where I live they had me sign this consent paper sort of shit where I agreed to be given treatment provided I adapted to live as the opposite sex and come out to family and friends, and failure to do so would result in stopping HRT. It's incredibly easy to bullshit through it, you sign and pretend you're just out to everybody in your family and friends and that you're socially transitioning too whenever you have to deal with the psychiatrists. Good thing they don't demand a strict clothing code which makes lying way easier
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>>8365653
I know you can just lie but overall I'd rather not deal with therapists like that. I don't like the concept of having to see a gender therapist and having them blackmail you into this things at the risk of taking away your hormones.

To me even though my GP might freakout cause he thinks there's a chance I might not be trans I ultimately don't care. I'd still take the hormones, just go femboy-mode lol
Ultimately even if it is some bizarre circumstance where I made a mistake in thinking I'm trans I don't think I'll regret taking hormones as I prefer to have a more feminine body regardless of if I ever socially transition.
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>>8365506
yea i self medded for 15 days before seeing her, so i guess i skipped that step. But my therapist knows i don't talk to either of my parents becouse they're failures, so why would i come out to them anyways? I don't even know anything about them really.

Also, my therapist asked me if i came just to get meds, and i told her i wanted to figure out whats wrong with me, that i wanted to know this is real. She knows i have dysphoria and is giving me constant advice like where to buy cloths, and asks me how i want to present. She's going out of her way asking me if i would like to be called female pronouns (telling her whole staff to follow along) and asking me what my new name is going to be, if i want one lol. I feel like she would be great for alot of doubtful people on here, especially the people like me with so much doubt about passing.
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>>8364948
It's probably because I went to a clinic in Seattle, but I got my informed consent prescription almost immediately
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>>8365772
Yeah same, I mean I'd rather just be able to sign an informed consent paper but unfortunately that doesn't even remotely exist in my shit country, so whoever wants hormones and isn't a textbook susan hon has to lie one way or another
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>>8365897
You might be able to convince a GP somewhere to do it.
Maybe find a med student that's graduating soon and suck his dick for hormones lol
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>>8365092
thank fuck for lax enforcement desu. I'm too cucked to risk my neck

and the only surgery I'm considering for now is the tracheal shave but even that seems 2spoopy
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>>8366055
I'm fine with lying, I already got my hormones that way, no need to gobble on dicks. Plus there's regulations here that controlled substances can't be prescribed by any doctor, you need a specific letter from an endocrinologist from the hospital and then you have to go get your whore moans at the hospital pharmacy (otherwise at normal pharmacies you have to pay). They're very fucking strict in that regard.
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>>8366176
That's so bizarre. So menopausal women or low T men can't just go through their GP for hormones then? What a hassle.
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>>8366181
Normally the GP can recommend them to an endo that then does blood tests and prescribes whatever they need. The GP's role is either being a first-line medical support for generic shit or assessing the situation to send you to a specialist. They *could* prescribe you shit but they just don't. For estrogens it's easier because they're not as strictly regulated as testosterone, but they'll often send the woman to a gynecologist for that.
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yesterdays makeup
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>>8364983
German tranny here. I've never heard of this test. I'm on HRT for about a year now and nobody told me about this!?
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>>8364845
>>8364864
>>8364889
HRT won't change you masculine skeletal features.
All it's gonna do is stop your male puberty(assuming it hasn't finished yet), give you small breasts, smoother skin and redistribute your body fat a bit. It won't magically make you pass.
Unless you start really young(as a minor), passing is mostly affected by makeup and clothing choice. Otherwise it all boils down to genetics or starting really young.
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>>8367707
After like 2-3 years on hrt it's way more noticeable than you think. Your body is constantly changing. For some people it just takes numerous years before they can easily pass
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>>8367707
If you're a hon, your makeup and clothes fool nobody and even if they did, peel them away and you're a man. That's failure. And gross. How could you accept that? You waited too long so this doesn't seem important to you.
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>>8364845

RLT surely only helps outrageous, uncaring, 5 'oclock shadow hons who dont give a shit about passing and define their existence by being trans while discouraging those of us terrified of not passing, so we just live with depression anxiety and dysphoria rather than get help

Is this the general consensus?
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