Are the majority of people who call themselves hons on this board ~actually~ hons or do they just suffer from BDD and chronic attention-seeking?
I'm a hon
I started at 20 and have 17 inch shoulders, 38 bust, 36 underbust, 32 waist, 41 hips
My tits look unappealing like manboobs
People only pity gender me female
It's bdd for sure. Try growing up in India where women have hairy knuckles and hobbit feet then tell me how you as a skinny white boy that's 5'8" cannot be a girl.
Most of them are twinkhons with bdd but some of them probably look like Robin or worse.
>>8358751
Robin is proof that some scary ass hons lurk this board.
A little bit of both. We all think we look bad but none of us look as bad as we think. Some of us even look good.
>>8358766
Robin isn't scary you fucking transphobe she is harmless
Nearly always the latter.
>>8358781
Harmless doesn't mean she isn't a giant beast.
>>8358789
She does not look intimidating in the least to me you're literally a bigot
>>8358720
Because I have strong male dimorphism features retard
What does hon stand for?
>>8358817
It refers to ugly middle-aged mtfs because they have a tendency to call people hon.
But nowadays people use it to describe any unpassing tranny no matter how old they are.
>>8358798
It's not up for men to decided wether or not they intimidate women.
>>8358834
She looks better than u
>>8358702
But you're disgusting cara.
You literally look like some crack addicted spic.
>>8358702
you tell me :^)
>>8358751
wew, got here before me
>>8358847
>dressed like a man
literally what
at least present female if you want to be one
>>8358853
it was a friend's wedding
also what female formalwear would suit my body?
>>8358853
t. Passing scum
>>8358858
Long A-line skirts and dresses will make any body feminine.
Especially the vintage styles.
I think you look good, though. Apart from the shoes. Those are awful, but since you're walking with a cane, I assume they're a necessary evil.
>>8358858
You could have at least worn a feminine top under your blazer and some flats. Also put on some goddamn makeup. Women don't go to formal events with a bare face.
>>8358872
>A-line dresses
>not looking like I'm wearing a potato sack with this ribcage
I wear jackets and stuff because otherwise it looks like I have a gut even though I don't my ribs are so flared
>>8358853
Women can wear suits you know...
>>8358880
>makeup
I do often wear subtle makeup tbf, just can't do complex stuff like eye makeup 'cause of dyspraxia
>feminine top
yeah I would have, the wedding was "galaxy-pattern" themed though and that was the only item of that sort I own
anyway, the biggest problem isn't my body, it's my manly face
>>8358896
Only cis women have the privilege of wearing mens clothing. No self-respecting non passer dresses like a man in public, let alone at a fucking wedding.
>>8358898
What are your wristbands?
>>8358898
Then ask a female friend to apply your eye makeup.
>>8358898
Are you planning on getting ffs?
>>8358872
here's me in an a-line dress btw
whenever I try to wear a one-piece outfit it looks like shit, dresses especially, even ones with a defined waist are made for cis women so the waist is around my lower ribcage and looks fucking retarded
>>8358880
What the fuck is this shit, women go to events without makeup all the time
started hrt at 32
dont care wat i look like
dysphoria is gone, thats a pass to me
my eyeballs have never seen my face, lol.
all the people made fun of here are actually really sweet and fun personalities.
all you kids worrying abut passing......eh maybe i just dont understand it yet. why do u all place physical beauty above morals and brainz?
>>8358905
just autistic shit, I got rid of most of them
>>8358915
lol nope, cis women only know how to do makeup on faces like their own, you let a cis woman near a tranny's face and pic related happens
>>8358916
lmao I fucking wish
my parents put together haven't had £14,000 in their pocket since I was born, let alone me
>>8358957
I don't know the extent of your disabilities but aren't there potentially well paying computer jobs you could do?
>>8358941
gender dysphoria
I need to pass as a female at least some of the time for it to be relieved
atm I'm gendered male as often as pretransition when I had a full beard and am instantly read as cis male by every stranger I meet even in full female casualwear
I place comfort in my own body, the vessel of my very existence, above all else, yes
>>8358921
Wrong file? Nice pic, though. I like your style.
Sucks about the dresses. I'm generally too short for one-piece dresses, so I do skirts + petticoats.
>>8358963
tried that but my memory loss is too severe, I literally forgot I was employed after 6 weeks and didn't know who to contact when I realised
I feel as locked-in and unable to lead a fulfilling life as a quadriplegic
>>8358974
Maybe you could do mechanical turk shit, transcriptions and whatever online and hide the money from the government?
>>8358904
>Only cis women have the privilege of wearing mens clothing.
:/
>>8358979
yeah I've been doing mechanical turk stuff for a while but it's literally pennies, it just doesn't build up quickly enough to be worthwhile desu
same with surveys etc.
the job I had before was pretty great, £10 an hour for audio-to-text transcription for a Chinese IT firm, but then I fucked it up just like I fuck up everything else in my life and literally forgot I was employed after just 6 weeks, tried to write back to them and apologise but got no answer and idek if I sent it to the right person
>>8358974
When did your memory loss start?
>>8358702
They're twinkhons that don't even look that bad. The term 'hon' has been completely deluded. It was supposed to refer to the Susan's types.
Most of the people here who call themselves "hons" are just a bit clocky at worst, and this behavior just leads to others feeling even worse about themselves.
>>8359007
See if you can find another then set up a recurring alarm that tells you you are employed and for whom
>>8359027
birth, I didn't breath for 6 mins or so and it gave me brain damage
my linguistic intelligence is 150 so it masks the extent of my learning difficulties a lot of the time, especially online
similar to Memento, I struggle to create new memories, but it's way more erratic than in the movies- sometimes I remember things, other times I don't, I'll not remember something I could remember minutes ago while remembering something else from way further back I had never remembered before, it's just totally all over the place, I'll drop a glass of water because I forget I'm holding it and shit
>>8359030
I've kept looking since periodically but I've had a lot of appointments on and stuff the last 6 months and also haven't found any similar offers since, so far
>>8358702
I'm pretty sure i'm a hon. My friends call me she and my best friend says i'm pretty etc. but i'm probably just being hugboxed.
I'm 6'2", broad shouldered, large ribcage and my waist is nearly as wide as my hips even though i'm on the slim side of a healthy weight. Tiny boobs that just look like weird pecs due to my wide chest. Face isn't that masculine but not that feminine but considering everything else it doesn't really matter.
Have been on hrt for 2 years and I'm pretty sure most things that will change have probably changed by now.
Things could be worse I guess so maybe I'm just a twinkhon but I will probably never pass so idc what 4chan wants to call me
>>8358921
That's not an A-line
This is an A-line. Think fifties dress. You wear petticoats underneath them so they give you an hourglass figure.
>>8358717
Is that shoulder measurement biacromial? If it is, RIP. Other wise, a tad under 17" is the female average apparently).
I'm so sorry about your ribcage.
>>8359484
>Other wise, a tad under 17" is the female average apparently).
I guess that includes even the most morbidly obese women?
>>8359484
>tfw my biacromial width is 19.5 inches since I was 15
h e l p
The former. I am a hopeless manhon who will never pass.
>>8359558
t. 5'8 34" ribs 40" hips
>>8358847
>>8359484
Yeah it's biachromial. I measured them around once, clocked in at 43 inches....
thanks for pitying me anon, now I can truly rip. Goodbye
>>8359576
I am 6', 33" ribs, 38" hips and about 18" shoulders tbqh
>>8358834
doesn't that mean it's not up to you either? take your meds, cara
>>8359597
better than me
>>8359597
YOU ARE ME WTF
How's your waist? 28.5" here.
You all are crazy.
for me:
>5'10
>145 pounds
>18.5" shoulders
>29" waist
>37" hips
t. ftm, bio female. These were my stats pre-T (they've changed drastically since).
Even with these measurements I never got gendered as male, and I had the deepest dyke voice imaginable with short hair. Unless you have a Sean Bean face you have no reason to complain.
"pity gender" my ass
>>8358898
You look good here
>>8360141
underbust?
>>8361153
28"
>>8360141
people on this board thinks anything else but face and voice matters to passing
they are all BDD
>>8361196
Kek well that explains it. Clever exclusion
>>8359552
Damn robin you got them twinkhons beat. How wide are your hips?
>>8361567
Yep those silly ftms cant outrun sexual dimorphism.
>>8362243
SUBSTANTIALLY LESS
>>8358702
5'9.5 height
Around 150lbs
36' chest
26' waist
32' hips
Size 8 womens shoes(uk)
Hows my measurements /lbgt/? From what I can tell thats not too far off girl size....makes me sad as I am late twenties with 5 o'clock hon shadow.
Sidenote: how effective is facial hair removal at removing/reducing hon-ness?
>>8358847
>>8358885
>>8358898
>>8358921
>>8358957
For real tho do you have a life outside of /lgbt/? You're in threads all the time posting multiples pics, which tells me you should either visit a therapist or at least read Janet Mock's first book so you learn to stop obsessing over appearances.
>>8363139
She's a disabled lesser hon, cut her a break
>>8363126
6 ft 1.5
>>8363139
not as much since last summer 'cause I moved across the other side of the city away from uni dorms and don't have friends etc. within walking distance anymore
also a lot of people I knew have dropped out of contact with me and/or moved away from this city as a result of graduating
I'm getting a disability bus pass in the next couple of weeks which will make it cheaper to get out more but yeah ngl my social life has taken a big hit so far this year, I go to the local BDSM munch monthly, go to a trans support group monthly, and go out at least once a week just to chill in the city park etc. but I go out with friends & to parties nowhere near as much as I used to these days which sucks, they've mostly turned normie and managed to hold down jobs / get married / have kids etc. or moved away like I said, all three of my main partners ended up having to move away (one to London, one to Brighton, my no. 1 to fucking Alaska to train as a specialty pilot)
hopefully getting a bus pass means I can explore the parts of the city I visit less a lot more and find some new hangouts, idk, I've got a handful of friends back in my hometown who are still really loyal and trainwrecks like myself but it's back where my psycho dad is (who I moved up here to get away from in the first place) so I don't like going there often and they're all too poor to travel up and visit
>>8358921
You look really feminine here. I would think you were a girl if I saw you in person wearing this.