hmmmm i guess i just assumed my fairy gaymother would come and

>>8358264
We cant give advice if we dont know your situation

>>8358310
I pretty much just told you.
I live with abusive idiots who would kick me out if I showed any signs of transitioning.

have you ever been F O R C E D to shave your legs, dry, in the back seat of a car because the pittance of pale, fine leg hair you grew was too much for a straight person to handle? this is what I'm dealing with.

I can't do anything to make myself more comfortable or I risk losing my home.

>>8358317
wear long pants in the meanwhile

we dont even know how old you are, who you live with, do you work or study or both

>>8358324
I'm 22, I live with my partner, I'm disabled.

>>8358339
With your partner? And your partner doesn't let you just be how you want to be?

>>8358342
No, is he supposed to? Is that what partners do?
In his opinion, he has to micromanage everything I do so I don't fuck up my life. He's a /pol/ user who hates traps, so that is obviously a big no-go. He does this out of "love".
He says if he didn't love me, he wouldn't care enough to try to save me.

From a normal person's perspective, do you see what is wrong with this?
Is this just how relationships are?

>>8358350
You're trolling saged

>>8358351
go fuck yourself, dude.
I wanted real advice.

>>8358350
Well in the first place the important thing is to be satisfied with your partner. You have to decide whether your dysphoria or your boyfriend is more important in your life.

>>8358357
I don't want my dysphoria to be important at all. I want it to fade into the background but he keeps bringing that shit back up again like a toilet plunger.

>>8358362
You can't just, for example, stop shaving and still expect an average straight guy to find that attractive. Just the same way a repressing MtF cant just suddenly start being feminine and expect his girlfriend to still find him attractive.

You have to choose, you either repress it completely or you go look for another partner.