So ive recently become incredibly fascinated with the gay leather/bdsm scene, to the point where im seriously considering trying to get involved in the scene.
Any guys here into this sort or thing and have any advice or know any resources where i could get more information?
http://www.leatherviews.com/cols/search2.asp
I found this website which has a collection of blogs the author has written over a few years from the late 90s. It was fascinating and really opened my eyes to the legitimacy of bdsm, the master/slave relationship, the social aspect of the community, and polyamory. I really dont know what to think anymore, specifcally as it relates to me. Its really made me think about the mindset of people who have nsa sex but in a very mature and self-aware way. Kinda made me feel like it would be good for me to be more sexually active.
Idk leather scene thread i guess.
>>8241759
>Any guys here into this sort or thing and have any advice
Don't. You'll only waste your money. Just learn how to tie rope.
I guess im also interested in discussion of the gay scene as a social construct. Guys meet on scruff, may or may not have sex, and make friends with the same guys. Sex is seen as a fun recreational activity and the lines arent really blurred, theyre more or less nonexistent. These guys are very open and honest with who they are and what they do with each other and i think thats kinda cool.
>>8241759
BDSM is gross and a gateway to serious venereal diseases.
>>8241786
>discussion of the gay scene as a social construct
English majors please go.
Been skirting around my local leather community, hitting on all the bears and muscle guys on grindr and scruff and growlr
The bear/leather communities are great! I want to be in a pack of muscle pups... I had never heard of anything like it 4 years ago. it's like a huge underground sex party with the guys getting off on everything about the essence of men having sex with men