I am bisexual, and I like to hook up with other guys sometimes.
No, I'm not "out of the closet" because it's mainly a sexual thing for me, so I don't feel the need to tell my friends or family.
Why do some gays seem to take offense to this or think I need to be doing something different here?
Good luck with getting outted
I can understand why they would be offended if you weren't being upfront with them about the relationship being mainly sexual.
>>8221651
I wouldn't be offended or anything, but I'd be like rolling my eyes and going "here we go again" because bi guys who are completely focused on making it only a sexual thing are usually insecure and trying way too hard to be masculine and it gets old fast.
You could be different though.
>>8221651
As if.
Please go you're talking shit.
>>8221651
>hook up
k
>mainly a sexual thing
well duh
>some gays seem to take offense
why are you discussing your personal life shit with hookups?
this is stupid bullshit, OP.
its like asking "why do prostitutes keep getting upset when I don't introduce them to my wife?"
you're either lying about several things here, or you're just fucking retarded.
>>8221888
I usually only tell the ones who ask.
>>8221651
>Why do some gays seem to take offense to this
Do they know beforehand you're only into it for sex or do you pull the traditional biscum method of ditching them 3 days into a relationship?
>>8221690
Similar to how all gay men are flaming fags and need to act normal.
>>8221651
Hi anon, for what's its worth, I'm the same as you. I wouldn't worry about what other people think, your preferences are what they are. I don't bring it up or like come out to anyone besides just a couple close friends and my wife because I don't see it as being part of my identity. I am romantically and sexually attracted to women, I am only sexually attracted to some men and I consider it a secondary attraction desu.
It's really that simple and once I reached that conclusion, I didn't lose another second of sleep over it. I recommend you not make it more complicated than it needs to be.