/lgbt/ help, making this thread because i would rather ask here

>>8141142
look up on the internet how to gain a fetish

also, vanilla fags are the worse.

>>8145098
its not gaining the fetish that's the thing, its me not knowing how to humiliate someone. im really bad at being mean or hurtful and it feels weird. kills my boner.

>>8145274
That's the thing, you don't have a fetish for it, so being sadistic isn't interesting to you, if you learn how to enjoy humiliating other people then the rest will come naturally, it won't feel "fake"

>>8141142
my bf is into humiliating and domming me and i hate it

so i guess i dunno you already know youre gonna leave him eventually just to be alone or to try and find a normie who isnt a giant faggot to be your bf

>>8145326
maybe, i don't want to leave him because hes really depressed and im his only friend.
>>8145316
idk how to actually enjoy being mean, i feel bad for making someone feel bad on accident. doing it on purpose would probably fucktuple the feeling.