So here's a question for y'all, I'm a straight

>>8126500
This is a weird question but do you have deep down fantasies to fuck her?

>>8126500
are you guys past high school now? is her family christian and/or conservative?
if no to one or more of the above, just let her stay in the closet because it's the safest place for her. if she's past high school and moved out and in a relatively accepting area, she can start slowly coming out to more people and might just need your encouragement or to talk about it with someone.

>>8126542
>if no to one or more of the above,
i worded that incorrectly
if you guys aren't past high school OR her family is christian and/or conservative, let her stay in the closet and don't pressure her*

>she has to come out
And have her life ruined?
nah, girl made the right decision to live in Narnia.
Coming out is a meme that translates to "endless suffering by the hands of breeders" in ancient ghanaian.

And you wish such a fate upon her?
Does she know that her childhood friend wants to see her suffer?

>>8126519
Naw, we tried dating before she came out and honestly it felt like kissing a sister or something. Dating her in general was probably a mistake because I strongly suspected she was gay before, but sorta wanted to give it a shot anyways.

>>8126542
We are in University, don't know too much about her family really but every time I've seen them they seemed pretty chill. Then again who knows what people act like behind closed doors.

>>8126562
If I let her stay in Narnia, how to I get her to stop treating me like a beard? She keeps pretending to flirt with me around her brother and shit. Like I don't mind helping her, but it sorta puts me in an odd situation with my actual gf ya know?

>>8126804
Is it a university in an accepting area? If so then I don't think it's uncalled for to talk to her about it. You could at least tell her you're uncomfortable with her pretending to be in a relationship with you, which is totally fair. Talk to her about her family/why she hasn't told them?
Also she could make an okcupid or a tinder or something and look for a qt3.14 gf

>>8126804
>how to I get her to stop treating me like a beard?
Get her a gay friend that's as much a closet case as she is.

>>8126818
Uhh, probably? To be honest I have no idea how accepting my town is, but there's pride shit everywhere on campus and a gay bar not that far from it either. There's LGBT support groups on the campus as well, which I told her to join but she's still living at home and thinks that world make it obvious or something, I dunno.

>>8126856
i would just bring it up to her and talk to her then. ask if her she's looking for a gf/found a gf yet or something and then from there elaborate on what you want to say to her and encourage her to go to the gay bar/lgbt group/make an okcupid/etc something and that you're not comfortable with her acting like she's dating you anymore. none of that would be out of line. especially the part about you being uncomfortable.

>>8126877
Should I like take her out to the gay bar? She doesn't really have any other close friends anymore, and I strongly doubt she would go there by herself. Then again I can't really like, wingman for her anything, also I have no idea what that place is like anyways, in terms of crowd or atmosphere (we live in a rather small town, 200k ish population).

>>8126500
>I know that coming out shit is super personal and everything, but honestly at this point it's just getting tiring, plus it's starting to really fuck with my own relationships.
I don't see why she has to come out when just "breaking up" with her is an option. She can just tell people she wants to be single and focus on her studies, etc.
You don't have to be her beard especially when you'd rather have a real relationship.

>>8126804
>We are in University, don't know too much about her family really but every time I've seen them they seemed pretty chill. Then again who knows what people act like behind closed doors.
Just don't out her to her parents.
They could be helping her pay for college, and if she's outed they're capable of pulling funds. The thing to worry about in this case is usually financial independence.

>>8126990
ask her if she wants to go? even if you don't wingman for her, just being there with her might make her more comfortable and in places like that in geral.

>>8127630
>Just don't out her to her parents.
>They could be helping her pay for college, and if she's outed they're capable of pulling funds. The thing to worry about in this case is usually financial independence.

Shit, never thought of that. Like, I dunno if they were capable of doing something like that but again, I don't really know them that well despite being neighbors and shit for a while.

But yeah this beard shit does have to stop one way or another, hopefully in a way that doesn't get her too mad or anything because she is a fun person to be around.