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got a weird question i guess. so i'm a trans guy, couple years on t, and post top chop. i have a boyfriend who is cis. he used be really promiscuous before we started dating, and that's cool, but he told me he misses sucking dick a lot. like, he feels bad that he wants to and stuff, and while i get that u can't help how u feel, i'm still feeling hurt by that. like, obviously i wish i had a dick and stuff, but i hate that what he told me makes me feel like i'm not enough. he kept assuring me that i am, but i feel like i'm denying him something he really wants.
i guess the obvious solution is to let him suck some random guy off, but i'm a pretty jealous person and while i'd like to think i'd be able to be ok with it, i don't know for sure.
anyway, the question is: how do i deal with these feelings? i'm pretty insecure about not having the right body already, and that just makes me feel worse.
how do i get over the feeling of not being good enough?
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If he'd rather suck dick than be in a relationship with you then your relationship isn't worth much and you'd be better off without it.
At least then you could be free to find someone who doesn't place so much value in a body part you don't happen to have.
I like sucking dick's as much as the next fag, but it's not like they're magic or that sperm is addictive or anything.
I have no idea how old you are, but if you're on the young side, you might just have to accept the fact that you'll be going through a lot of shallow relationships like this until your dating-pool matures past the point of being immature whores. Just think of them all as "practice boyfriends" and use them as a way to learn what kind of guy/relationship you really want to end up with, and grow as a person so you'll be more worthwhile of a partner to that future guy you'll someday end up with.
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Get a dick. Do I have to think of everything?
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>>8120446
he says loves me way more than sucking dick and that he never wanted to hurt me and that he shouldn't have said it. i guess what hurts more is that he feels like that at all. idk i wanna b with him for a long time and he does too i just don't kno what to do cause i feel bad
i guess i kinda feel bad for tying him down? even though he wants to be with me
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>>8120499
would if i had the money but i'm poor
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>>8120315
>falling for the monogamy meme
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>>8120446
>find someone who doesn't place so much value in a body part
implying such a person exists
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There is nothing you can do. You will have to wait until time puts enough distance between you and the comment that hurt you. This is something that both of you just have to deal with. He sounds like a piece of shit for ever having told you that, but whatever, if you try to find the perfect person who is always considerate of your feelings, you'd be alone forever.
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Hire an escort and blow him together?
You dont have to be left out
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>>8120889
>He sounds like a piece of shit
Honest people are the worst!
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Why can't he just suck his own dick like a normal gay man?
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>>8120912
i think that's what we'll do eventually. i just hate to think that i'd have to, though he assures me that it's not that big a deal and that he shouldn't have said anything
i just don't know how to deal with feeling sad
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