Let's say you're gay and your brother has suspected

How old we talking here? You sound young.
If your younger than 17 text mom
If he is more than three years older text mom
If your an adult , call him out on his shit. If this a new relationship he has no right to touch you period!

He shouldn't offended if you pull back, no one can ever make you feel obligated to allow sexual advances unless your into them also!

Idk if I'm reading something that's not there but family as a sexual partner no matter how far away the relation is a bad idea.

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That is unhealthy

>>8097442
Just talk to him ffs. If he's gay and atracted to you, tell him that you don't want any sexual to happen before the age of consent, the maturity age, you stupid fuck.

>>8097460
I'm 19 and in college he's 23 now I think actually.
I don't know if it was a sexual thing even but the way he pulled back was like a spider had just touched him. I'm really confused on what to think.
He's not really a playful oerson, so maybe he just thought it would show him whether I was gay or not or maybe he was just casually touching me... it happened really fast. I want to just ask why, I know he's awake still but idk what to say, if someone could tell me what kind of way to ask it'd help. (I know incest is bad, I don't think I'm attracted to him but I'd be lying if I said I didn't watch incesty porn)

>>8097475
Also he's on the autism spectrum I should mention, it's been a long road.

>>8097478
>he's on the autism spectrum
Wow. Is he high-functioning or he's sort of dumb speaking vegetable?

>>8097475
Most people with poor familial relationships do, Dont be embarrassed about that. You can just tell him "hey, you know earlier when you touched me? Well I'm sorry i twitched out for a second, I wasn't expecting it and I kinda enjoy having my own personal space you know?" Say it kinda sheepishly and you'll get your point across.

Thinking about it he could have been slut checking you.. Maybe trying to see how well you do with contact? that's a grooming behavior, just thinking about that makes me sick. I'd be careful. If your really inexperienced sexually wise I would be protective around him.

>>8097485
Like medium-high, he just is really difficult to deal with. Being around him is stressful. He flips out, goes on tirades about things that don't matter, and he's taken to drinking and it makes him like regret things. He will continuously apologize even for things that he doesn't need to because he just assumes everything he does is annoying someone, but it doesn't stop him from doing the action, ever. He's not drunk now but I have no idea how he'll react. He's kind of less like that as the years go on but still.

>>8097496
This is a good suggestion. I didn't think to act sheepishly, he actually does either get really overly apologetic or twice as mad when anyone seems upset, even if they aren't.

I think we are both virgins. Can you explain slut checking? Seeing if I'd let him so he could keep going or something?

I think I might just visit home even less...

>>8097498
Well, I guess that he prefers to deal with clear messages with single meaning, straight and sincere, right?

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>>8097515
My mom is naturally very firm and kind of generally unemotional and he hates it so I try not to be direct or blunt with him. But smiling gives him mixed signals and other emotions might upset him for no reason. I'm really liking this sheepish idea, just be a bit head-hanging

If my thread isn't dead I'll update tomorrow, thank you, I should sleep. I guess I have to do this in person and not text...

>>8097509
>slut check
To touch someone on the thighs, small of back, hips, cheeks/sides of neck, sides of the chest by the armpit. Basically our skin is a sex organ. These areas are close to lymph nodes (you subconsciously protect these areas) they are not normal touch zones in day to day interaction. These zones are used in cases of sexual abuse in children access their condition. Persons who are acclimated to these touches have had multiple sex partners/take part in promiscuous behaviour. I know this because I was victim at a young age and this was explained to me.

>>8097558
>these zones are used in case of sexual interaction.
What? So like child services touch you there, seeing how you react to it?

>>8097442
>should I tell my mom?
definitely not
talk to him first if anything
if he's on the autism spectrum, he may or may not have considered it sexual or abnormal

how high on your inner thigh was it? if it was by the knee its nothing...if it was close to your crotch thats pretty weird

Can't believe no one has said this yet. You should obviously fuck him OP.

Glad I got that out of my system

>>8098298
definitely this

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Back guys, also back home. I asked really nicely what he was doing by touching my thigh... he just kinda shrugged. He said he was trying to touch my dick but to make me fuck up in BotW. The way I jerked away startled him. And he thought maybe he crossed a line but he wasn't sure. I guess it wasn't a sexual thing or related to my sexuality, so I guess that was my bad. Eh whatever. Sorry for anticlimax.

Gif really related(from Scream Queens)

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>>8103678
fag

just tell him
>"boys make the best kind of children so dont let mom catch us being gay 2gether or else mom will be upset that she cant be gay with us lol no homor bro!"