>story time
>meet bf in early 2015
>fuck a bit
>take a break for a few months
>go back at it (8/15)
>it's going good
>11/15
>he finds a gf
>drop it off
>meet back up (5/16)
>super emotional this time
>Netflix and chill every day for a month straight
>thanksgiving was amazing we didn't have a turkey but there was tons of stuffing.
>All day was nonstop partying it was amazing and I wanted to tell him that night that I loved him but not in the committing to him way or expecting anything out of him way, but just that he meant a lot to me.
>the next day;
>>8065303
GO to /b/
fuck off chaser.
>he texts me that nobody has heard from his mother in a while
>he's really worried
>it was an accident
>nobody had checked for 2 weeks
>it was beyond tragic to me and I was just a third party
>he breaks
>any light he had is now gone
>he's dead inside
>his therapist pressures me to move in for his sake
>I had told her it was something I wouldn't be opposed to if asked in the past but I would never intrude like that.
>she asks me in front of him to stay with him for a while
>make sure he is safe and has someone to turn to
>what the fuck else am I supposed to say when he's bawling his eyes out
>so I guess we live together for the next 5 months;
>>8065349
How to make create a toxic relationship 101
>I blow through a decent amount of the money I had saved to buy stuff for us since he wasn't working for a few weeks
>attend the funeral
>it's intense
>don't know how to act
>we haven't discussed where we are with each other emotionally
>just kinda go with it
>he wanted me around constantly so I quit my job
>struggle to hold work because I am horribly depressed that I am in this position but I can't go back to where I was either, like literally.
>I had been living with my dad and he said I couldn't live there anymore after I quit my job for him
>any chemistry between us completely collapses
>he lashes out at me daily for the smallest things
>escalates to physical abuse
>he hits like a girl
>but it's the thought that counts
>fuck this dude
Have you tried breaking up with him?
>>8065413
You cutting him out of your life?
>>8065446
>>8065450
Yea we're done I got the last of my stuff out today. He was such an asshole too.
He was yelling at me the entire time I was there except for 5 minutes of silence in the beginning.
I got the rest of my stuff today and his aunt was there and she kept a buffer but he was still being a cunt.
so you abandoned your bf when his mother died.
you sound like a great person.