>me: presumably straight male >move to los angeles >start

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>>8051562
>good hearts
Lol, delusional, a person with a good heart doesn't break the hearts and trust of others deliberately. You're both awful, you should've just dated each other so that no other unfortunate soul finds themselves hurt because they couldn't foresee your awful ways.

>>8051785

>im too unattractive to even have the option of cheating

unbunch your panties.

>>8051562
lol you're both trash, but what could you expect from bisexuals?

>>8051844

pretty sure I'm gay. I looked at gay porn once when i was 14 and was pretty into it, but my dad found out and beat the ever loving shit out of me, I actually had to get 3 fake teeth put in as a result.

since then ive been too nervous to really explore it, except with this penpal.

>>8051828
It's terrible to cheat whether I'm ugly or not. Gain some empathy.

>>8051881

I do have empathy, its not like i didnt feel bad, i told my girlfriend literally after it happened, it lasted five minutes and we didnt have sex the first time cuz i had to stop, guilt consumed me.

there's a difference between empathy and being perfect. most people assume they'd never cheat, but most haven't actually been tempted to cheat.

>>8051893
Rule of thumb is to just break up with the other person if you feel so tempted.

>>8051893
Not that guy but you don't value the trust of your relationships enough not to cheat is the issue. The trust and feelings of the person you are in a committed relationship with, just aren't as important as a random night making out with another guy. And that's what makes you an awful person to be in a relationship with in my view. If you want some random guy bad enough not to put your significant other's trust above your impulses, then you don't need to be in an exclusive relationship with that person.

>>8051562

Honestly how old are you both?

He should break up with her and you both should start dating...

>>8051562
>los angeles
What the fuck are you worried about. Just be gay.

>>8051562
>>move to los angeles
theres your problem

Damn, everyone's getting on your ass about cheating. I bet you're not even 30 yet, you're still a kid and I really see no harm in a couple fuck ups while you are still young although clearly you need to learn from it and not do it again, since it is a shitty thing to do to someone. But clearly you didnt cheat from being evil, and you told her right away. So just don't do it again.

Anyway this is the answer:
>>8056586

And do this in the future:
>>8051919

Or be a champion and find someone who doesn't care if you do things with other people on the side. (The trick is getting into relationships with people who love themselves and arent deeply insecure and reliant on affection from others. Those kind of people dont get butthurt if you want to experiment sexually with someone else or if your relationship doesnt work out, they are rational)

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>>8051562
Literally laughing at this /pol/gbt
This is what you get for not being bluepilled m8.

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>>8051562
How's the 'more options' working out for you, bisexuals?

Gonna be honest, you two should just get married to each other so you don't end up breaking any more hearts.

>>8051828
>everyone cheats and anyone who disagrees is just too ugly to pull it off

Thats quite the opinion you have there

>>8051562
Is this Brokeback mountain?
I feel like this is Brokeback mountain

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>>8051562
I mean; I don't think you're a bad person. Nor is he, really. I think your minds and your hearts are at odds, which is the crucial factor that leads to cheating. Or perhaps your heart and your heart are at odds. Either way, it leads to the same thing. What really matters is what you do from here.

Do you like to cheat? Does he? If it makes you feel guilty, it's for a reason. And if you want him--honestly, being open with yourself, want him--then you should say so, because leading girls on like that only harms you both. There's nothing wrong if you want to be in his arms, OP. But there IS wrong if you are willing to hurt somebody to keep the illusion that you DON'T want him.

It's fine to want him. But be honest with yourself. That's how you'll solve this. Sit down and ask yourself how you feel, with no "but"'s attached. Just find out how you feel, screw the add ons. The "but this" "but that" can fuck off. Just find out how you feel, and go from there.

Then, you'll stop hurting others, and more importantly, you'll stop hurting yourself. But this is just an idea from someone who knows nothing at all.

I figure we all know nothing at all. Suppose that makes what we do and what we are alright, if we work on it ^^

>>8051850
:( that's heartbreaking

i hope you find someone in a better situation, who you can be with forever