Ok here's the situation
>im bi
>looking for a man fwb
>they all keep getting attached
Every guy i fuck gets into me regardless of how clear i make it that it's literally just a sexual thing
How do i stop this happening?
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>>8028894
Oh gee how dare humans have emotions, why can't all the guys be just fuckholes for you amirite?
>>8028929
Not OP, but they knew what they were getting into.
If they wanted something real, they shouldn't have got a fwb.
Same thing happens to me, anon.
I've just developed some rules.
I use a burner phone, I don't bring them to my house, and I don't fuck them more than twice unless they seem cool with just a fuckbuddies thing.
Also I tell them I have a gf (i don't) so they don't get their hopes up.
I have several dudes that I rotate in and out of my bed (okay, their bed) and I ignore all their calls and texts and I don't call them I only text if I want to fuck them and I don't say anything except "You home?" which means "Wash your ass I'm coming over"
I try not to talk at all when I'm at their house except "Show me your ass" and "You want my cum in your ass?"
If they start getting lovey-dovey I just don't text them at all for a couple of months until they have forgotten about me and then I text them out of the blue "Wanna get fucked?"
A couple of them have ignored me at that point, but most of them are like "Please, yes, come over, I'll call in sick to work, anything! Please just give me your cock!" or whatever and I fuck them and then ignore them for another month or so.
If you do this enough times they get the message and they don't even bother bringing up relationship stuff because they know you're just going to pretend like you didn't hear them and if they keep talking then you'll just walk out and not contact them for 6 months.
It seems brutal, but you have all the power so you might as well use it.
If they know you're a player then they aren't going to expect you to settle down with them.
>>8029158
shit i want you
>>8028968
Here's the thing
>fwb
>friends with benefits
>FRIENDS
I don't know if you understand the meaning of that word but it indicates emotional attachment.
>I had sex with randos
>This caused drama and emotions
Jesus i know 4chan is for social retards but did you seriously not see this coming? Like not at all? Have you ever talked to a human before?
>>8031086
I always specify that it's just sex
You're probably hot and amazing at being intimate (not just sex). It's hard as fuck not to fall for someone with those qualities.