How does a shy, feminine girl get a gf? I'm openly gay but I don't really mention it unless it's relevant, which it usually isn't, and everyone assumes I'm straight. I don't have any lgbt friends and my town doesn't have gay bars or anything like that.
>>8028063
just b urself
>>8028063
Have you tried dating sites?
OK Cupid, tindr, bumble, HER, etc?
Otherwise maybe you should move
>>8028063
Grab random girl's boobs in public and eventually one will be like 'hey bby'
>>8028091
No. I get really anxious talking to strangers like that. I guess I should try to get over it, but I just wish I could meet a girl irl by chance like straight people.
Same here anon... I've never thought dating sites/apps were for me because I'm not comfortable with that kind of interaction, feels forced, but I'm starting to consider it since I don't have many other options ..
Also I'm afraid someone akin me won't be found there. What do?
>>8028063
>tfw i want to date cute girl
>literally my only options are fat tumblr turbo dykes
i think i should just give up and be a spinster. unless i date bi girls who i dont trust
>>8029406
>unless I date bi girls who I don't trust
Sigh, why do most wlw who aren't bisexual hate bi girls? :/
>>8028063
>I'm openly gay but I don't really mention it unless it's relevant, which it usually isn't, and everyone assumes I'm straight.
So you're not openly gay then. You're basically in the closet and only admit to being a carpet muncher if cornered. Try buzz cutting your hair, wearing men's clothes, getting 16 ear piercings, and maybe add some rainbow to your wardrobe, and tell everyone you're gay all the time.
>>8029406
Not OP but that adds it to being complicated. I'm bi and never have been with a girl before, though I really want to ... wtf do I do if half people keep perceiving me as straight and other half don't trust me?
>>8029568
Most gay girls are worried that bi girls are just straight girls who are experimenting