I'm confused about my sexuality, but I like being a virgin

> Likes being a virgin
Wut the fuck
Just don't be gay problems solved

>>7991833

The problem is I just always end up overthinking it, my sense of identity is all fucked up.

Could be asexual or a low sex drive.

Regarding liking being a virgin(never thought I'd write those words), what turns you off sex? Is it the physical act itself or the ritual of acquiring sex?

>>7991918
Then don't identify as something
I like girls today great
You like dudes tomorrow great

>>7991813
Fap and attain bf/gf who wants to wait.

>>7991942

There's a lot of bullshit that comes with being sexually active, I just don't want to deal with it, and I don't seem to crave intimacy as much as other people.

>>7991945

Its just become kind of hard not to think about. Once I started having doubts I looked into sexuality as much as I could and started examining my feelings and interactions with others more closely, and over time it just became a almost daily obsession. I don't want to feel like I'm forcing myself not to think about it because then it feels like I'm entering denial/repression mode, when really I just want to focus on other things.

>>7991957

I don't want a so.

>>7991813
>I'm confused about my sexuality
Well what turns you on?
That should answer your questions.

>I like being a virgin
Me too but that's cognitive dissonance and other conflicting thoughts.

>>7992023
Sounds like insecurity to me, that's being hidden under obsessive rationalization. But then again that's what the majority of asexuals sound like to me, so you could just label yourself that if it gives you any peace of mind.

Other than that, consider counseling if you can find/afford it.

>>7992048
>Well what turns you on?

In porn I like everything from gay to straight, but I only like girls otherwise. With girls my attraction is more absolute, but with guys its very iffy. If I had to be sexually active I'd probably just stick with girls, but the fact that my preferences could change over time is what bothers me.

>>7992089

Well I'm definitely insecure, but its not really the label I'm worried about it.

>>7992221
>In porn I like everything from gay to straight, but I only like girls otherwise. With girls my attraction is more absolute, but with guys its very iffy
Bisexual with a leaning towards girls.
There.

>>7992232

Doesn't really help, like I said its not the label I'm worried about, its not really knowing where my boundaries begin or end.

Get a man who is hung and experienced to fuck the crap out of you. Then you will be gay forever. Problem solved

>>7992445

lol. That's a hot fantasy, but the problem is I'm not attracted to guys at all once I'm around them. That's where most of my confusion comes from. I've done pretty much all the gay shit you can do alone, but when faced with guys the magic just isn't there.