How is a shy bottom guy supposed to get a serious relationship with another guy?
The chances of just meeting another guy, him being gay, both parties realizing the other one is gay, having mutual interest and things clicking are astronomically low. And places that take out the first 3 steps (i.e grindr, bars) seem to just be there for casual sex.
>>7985228
I actually know exactly how you feel about this.
>>7985228
you sound really cute OP I would want you to be my bf
[spoiler]except im a transbian[/spoiler]
>>7985228
get his phone number, try meating up to see a film and follow it up with some sex, try playing vidya and mistake where is the joystick...
>>7985342
How do I get the phone number? Who's this mystery man? That part is easy, it's everything up to that point I'm having trouble with
>>7985401
just casually appear more often in his life, but try not to interfere too much because he might be upset about it. People generally don't like someone who wants to know how are you 24/7 and who are you hanging arround with.
>>7985228
Hey Im 18 top, wanna snapchat?
>>7985591
I don't have snapchat and you're probs in the states (I'm a canadanon)
>>7985228
>The chances of just meeting another guy, him being gay, both parties realizing the other one is gay, having mutual interest and things clicking are astronomically low.
And yet normies still manage to do it.
>>7985704
I wish I was a normie
>>7985228
Not really, you just have to search in the right places although a serious relationship is rare
I'd just use tinder or maybe a friend would know someone. That's what I do OP
>>7986783
I went ahead and actually downloaded tinder. I don't really have a lot of good pics tho and I only have 1 on there. What am I in for? I already swiped right on a couple of guys I thought were cute
>>7985228
Grindr/Scruff are pretty great outlets for finding dates. Just be upfront with people about why you are using the service. The only thing Grindr actually does as a program is show you local gay/bi/queer men. What you say to them and what you try to get out of that service is COMPLETELY up to you.
i dont suggest grindr at all, use tinder or facebook and go clubbing
Well, I spent last 9 years(28 now) looking for a cute Asian guy with nice character. Its a distaster so far :D
Guesss I will eighter find him or commit suicide.