I went to a gay bar for the first time today. Because I was anxious, I brought a book and read it there from 6 to 7:15 pm. Nobody talked to me at all. I feel a little more comfortable about bars having experienced the atmosphere a little, but I still think I'm a massive (and possibly ugly) autist and am a little upset nobody talked to me. feels mixed man.
How am I supposed to act if I'm at a bar alone?
>>7973678
Go at night with a slutty tanktop on
>>7973718
this and don't bring a book. At most use your cell phone. That way you seem more inviting.
>>7973678
Nobody approached you because they probably thought you were retarded? Who the fuck goes to a club to read?
>>7973678
>I would like to talk with that guy
>But he's reading a book, I don't want to bother him
>>7973745
Hahahaha #died
>>7973745
>Who the fuck goes to a club to read?
Intellectuals far more intelligent than you. Partying is a spook.
go with a friend for support. shit i never go to bars by myself let alone the first time and definitely don't bring books unless it's a hangout kind of place, but i'm guessing we're not talking gay hookah bars
How can you even read with the music and people talking? Even someone really attractive would be seen as a fucking weirdo if they had a book out
>>7973678
This guy has horse skin.
>>7973678
>reading a book at a place where its considered odd to *not* get his dick sucked in the bathroom
Dude, you fucked up. You would've gotten more attention if you'd been a straight girl
OP, if bars aren't your thing then perhaps you should try meeting people somewhere else. I know personally I work in a bar, I'm there must nights of a week, and I still fucking hate the atmosphere, and the scene; it almost feels dehumanizing, but then my perspective is somewhat different given that it's a workplace for me.
Is there anything you like about going to the bar?
>>7973678
Another night I went to a gay bar once with my talkative and cheerful straight friend.
He got loads of attention, completly forgot about me, got slightly drunk with every attracted stranger offering a drink, so I left him alone there and turned my phone off. Never spoke to him since then.