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>be gay boy with fiancee
>three months ago, fiancee dumps me
>go crazy and start going on as many dates as possible to help with the unbearable pain, including friends and acquaintances that have fancied me for years
>I tend to go for the ones who love me the most so that their love can help fill the void where my fiancee's used to be
>the pain is starting to subside now
>life is no longer Hell on Earth
>but now there's no fewer than six people who think something is developing between us and that I'm falling in love with them
>I don't have any romantic feelings for any of them and, now that the worst is over, just want to withdraw and recuperate
So, uh... if any of you guys have had similar experiences, some suggestions on how to get out of this mess would be appreciated.
(Don't bother calling me a bad person. I knew that long before this happened.)
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>>7939417
Slowly distance yourself from them. You already fucked up. There is no easy way out for them.
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whyd ur fiancee dump you.
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>>7939438
He said we're "just too different" and "aren't compatible enough." He's a party-loving social butterfly that has visiting every country in the world as one of his goals, I'm more of an introvert and homebody that could easily live as a hermit so long as I kept my family and closest friends. He said that I was holding him back from truly enjoying life.
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>>7939456
>dating a fucking normie that effectivally dumped you over money
what were you thinking
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>>7939490
>implying that piece of garbage "fuck me until I don't feel empty anymore. I feel better now fuck off" is any better.
LMAO they were made for each other.
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>>7939456
He was right. Your mistake was trying to prolong it as long as you did.
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>>7941243
I'll never understand that, and to be honest, I never will. Love is the most important thing in this world. That's why I've friendzoned and rejected even people I had fairly strong romantic feelings for - because I want someone that I can truly love to the depths of my heart and have that soulmate connection with. I'd have been perfectly happy living on a desert island for the rest of my life so long as he was with me.
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>>7941278
*to be honest, I don't want to
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>>7941278
Yes, but he didn't feel the same way. Extroverts NEED to have other people around. Significant amounts of other people. Dragging someone around who isn't enjoying themselves is just a drag.
Relationships need compatibility to work.
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