Can you guys give me some tips on whiping my ass correctly so

>>7894176
buy a Fleet enema and follow the directions

>>7894176
First is patience, if you've never bottomed before, it will take time before pleasure takes over pain. As the above anon stated, enema/ douching is a great first step in relaxing your spincter. There are a plethora of options out there available (my partner and i use a shower head attachment). Next steps if you don't want to spend much money or are discreet, use your fingers while and after douching. Add as many as you can per session. Do not go too long of time between sessions as your spincter will start to tighten back up (would recommend daily, every other day). If you are open to spending some cash, get a starter size dildo; I would recommend a glass prostate toy as they aren't large in girth, but long enough to train and get pleasure from. The more you work at it, the more relaxed and loose you will become (but not loose as in your ass is a constant gaping hole).